I don't think I am being disingenuous, I am just not a biblical head hunter, I don't search the scriptures for the condemnation of unbelievers, I search the scriptures for life, and I have found it in there. Sure humans will be thrown into the fire, I never disagree with. However I search for life, and I see a way for humans to come out of the fire, renewed. Again Jesus in Mark 9:49, "For everyone shall be salted with fire." I don't see the fire like you do, I don't see the destruction of any human thrown in the fire; they will come out " Salted", or seasoned, or better off than before.
I am not urged to see unbelievers in some eternal mess or some harsh eternal death. I am led to believe in the mercy and grace of God doing something about evil humans and people who just don't know what to believe. To change them. 1 Corinth. 3:15, "If any mans work shall be burned, he shall suffer loss; but he himself SHALL BE SAVED, by FIRE!" I see salvation in the fire, you see condemnation, because you are urged and led to see that.
I am not disingenuous, I am just different than you. We can look at the same biblical verses, and see things totally different. We see as we are motivated to see. What we see is based on a spirit, which spirit is there, I will not judge that in others. It is also based on our life experience, our ability to learn, our personal desires, and people who influence us; all these paint the picture you see in scripture.
People who see condemnation for others, do not see mercy for them, they don't see grace for them, they don't see forgiveness for them, because of what is inside of them- their own lives and desires fuel what they see in scripture. Your personal life is behind how you judge others; hell is what YOU would do to sinners. If YOU have your way, then unbelievers, AND people like me who do believe, but see it far different than you, we will be sentenced by your life experiences and how YOU are and what YOU want done with me by God. YOU want me to be hurt for all eternity. That is just cold blooded!