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Tambora - When is racism
not a bad thing?
There are instances in the bible when Israel was not to associate or marry outside of their own.
For whatever reason, it seemed to be preferred at the time.
So, as to answer your question, I have a hard time boxing anything into
always being good or bad.
I think it depends on the situation at hand.
What may be beneficial at one time, may not have the same benefit at all times.
Ecclesiastes 3 KJV
(1) To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
(2) A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
(3) A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
(4) A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
(5) A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
(6) A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
(7) A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
(8) A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.
I think we need to be a little more forgiving of folks that are in a particularly bad mood that say things in a heated moment, and not start digging in the claws over every little thing.
We've all been there.
We all know the thoughts that go through our heads when we get upset and words are blurted out.
Look, I hate it when watching a courtroom show and see them use the old "He said he wanted to kill her last week".
As if saying it meant he actually wanted to literally do so.
I've been upset with my kids and said I was going to kill them.
People say things in a heated moment that they do not mean literally.
Everyone has said that about someone.
It is no proof at all that they are the kind of person that would do such a thing.
Sometimes words are just blurted out, and they really don't have any true literal meaning other than just being upset and emotional.