You are making me confused.You would be better off leaning how to be less obtuse!
What is "obtuse" about trying to live responsibly and focus on my own shortcomings instead of projecting them on others and condemning them?
Isn't it important to strive for seeing and recognizing the logs in my own eyes before I deem I should pick out the tiny specks of sawdust in the eyes of my brothers and sisters?
I am certainly not claiming perfection and divine knowledge here, but Jesus' bit of 2,000-year old pop psychology is a worthy goal to strive for.