Anna evidently you are unfamiliar with emotional rape. It is a term psychologists use. I know all about physical rape having been there. But rape as a term is not confined these days to just the physical. Abusers who wield disproportionate strength and force or attempt to force others to subject to their will are no less guilty than physical rapists.
For the first few years of my legal life I represented thousands of victims of abuse. I integrated my service with the shelters serving the lower half of our state, spent a great deal of time educating law enforcement, including judges on the reality of physical and emotional abuse and its impact on the victims, overwhelmingly women, I represented in court.
None of those women would have trivialized their experience the way you did by comparing it to a thing as slight as number on a tote board.
Emotional abuse is a very real and damaging phenomenon. Shame on you for trivializing it.
You need to calm down. People compare all kinds of things with rape. I certainly do. When one horse passes another horse on the racetrack, I say "Dayum! That horse got raped".
Implied profanity is a rules violation here, fyi...else, she wasn't making what could be dismissed in the young as an off hand example of immaturity in consideration (which is what the use of rape as something of a joke expresses). She was serious.
She will never get it. Shallow with the rest of the rapists, miss anna is.
You're an indefensibly small creature. And a horrible example of your sex, to be so blinded by your own personal vendetta that you'd join in that sort of trivialization.
But that rather neatly sums you and yours, doesn't it.