It is true there are many different theologies within the Christian faith. However, what we Christians are called to do biblically is to compare what is being taught ... with the Word of God. It is each of our responsibility to do so. We are to each take on this personal responsibility. It takes time and study .... but one does so over time and learns little by little, but I will say, when one does so ... overtime you will discover in complete amazement the truth of Gods word. Many many many people do not do this ... many people do not even take their bibles to church ... so they are believing what they are being taught, which is not neccessarily the entire truth. So, one chooses to believe what they believe based on the information they have accumulated "so far" and therefore we have differences and we discuss these differences ... that is our human nature. Seems to be more of a "battle" over who is right .... well.... God is right.
So, I would recommend first, that you study topically, understanding Gods love. Love pertaining to God is not just something He does (loves us) it is what He IS.
1 John
16 So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. "God is love", and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him
and then of course MOST importantly is:
John 3:16
16 “For God so loved the world,i that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.
Yes, my friend, perfect eternal life, with perfect eternal God our creator, in a perfect eternal world. I pray to see you there ;o)
Through getting to know Him through His word ... one forms a personal relationship with God Almighty creator of all things .... WOW ....
I encourage you to take this journey, and as you learn and become closer with Him, you will never ever regret it.
Perhaps this might help you with your journey.
How I study is topically ... I use this free online tool
www.biblhub.com and run word searches (on the entire bible) ... such as love, loving, loved ... run the searches on the root word and also all "tenses" of the words. Also, run searches of words that have the same meaning. This is a good start and is easy to do with just a few clicks.
Don't expect that everything that is pulled up will be in "harmony" with each other, but many will. Bible verses also need to be kept in the "context" of what is being talked about as well. Keep in mind that the Bible does not contradict itself ... if it appears that way ... then you need to keep studying until it is revealed to you how it all fits together.
The entire bible is all about Jesus, who is God and God IS love.
Seems like a lot to it ... but no doubt, as you read you will learn many wonderful things and then start formulating "a belief" ... which as you learn will likely change as you gain more knowledge ... point is ... get the knowledge, know His love .... His love for you.
Jesus wants you to know Him personally and have a loving personal relationship with you. Amazing .... absolutely amazing.
God Bless you, may you open the door to your heart and let Him in. Amen