My reasoning is overall context.
What kind of God is it if He burns non-believers forever?
What makes you think non-believers live forever in burning hell?
Yep; that first question is basically the very first question the Jehovah's Witness starts a conversation with, when approaching people with their Watch Tower propaganda.
And its a good question. One that can and should be dealt with.
1 - The problem is that the JW's use of it is strategically based on very specific sales tactics the JW is unwittingly taught to use throughout his or her presentation, or what the Apostle Paul negatively refers to as "the wisdom of words" in passages like....
1 Corinthians 1:17's "For Christ sent me not to baptize, but to preach the gospel: not with wisdom of words, lest the cross of Christ should be made of none effect."
2- Another problem with your "why would a loving God do" this; that; the other, is that it intentionally appeals to the ignorance about such things in the average person; including the average "church goer."
It is the exact tatic that Genesis 3 depicts the Adversary subtily applying during his attempted and successful tempting of Adam thru Eve.
Genesis 3:1 Now the serpent was more subtil than any beast of the field which the LORD God had made. And he said unto the woman, Yea, hath God said, Ye shall not eat of every tree of the garden?
3 - Lastly, of other issues with it that could be cited and or explored in depth, is the simple fact that it was a loving God Who sent His Son to suffer that horrible death for ALL.
"What loving Father would have" allowed the following?
But He did just that.
Luke 22:39 And he came out, and went, as he was wont, to the mount of Olives; and his disciples also followed him. 22:40 And when he was at the place, he said unto them, Pray that ye enter not into temptation. 22:41 And he was withdrawn from them about a stone's cast, and kneeled down, and prayed, 22:42 Saying, Father, if thou be willing, remove this cup from me: nevertheless not my will, but thine, be done. 22:43 And there appeared an angel unto him from heaven, strengthening him. 22:44 And being in an agony he prayed more earnestly: and his sweat was as it were great drops of blood falling down to the ground.
Talk about the anxiety of His obviously OVERWHELMING agony that "his sweat was as it were great drops of blood falling down to the ground."
Which only happens to a person under VERY, VERY great, practically UNBEARABLE stress.
No Meshak, you have been deceived.
Your ignorance (unawareness) of basic, sound teaching on this issue way back when you were first approached by the JW cult, allowed them to deceive you into their own self-deception with them.
Of course, that is NO reason to spit on you.
None - At - All.
There is simply no cause for it from ANYONE claiming THEIRS is THE gospel of the G-R-A-C-E - OF GOD."
For God's view of you ALSO and despite the deception you were carefully reeled into by a very strategic cult against your eternal soul - God's view of you NEVERTHELESS continues to be the EVER patient GRACE of how that...
Romans 5:6 For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. 5:7 For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. 5:8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
2 Corinthians 5:19 To wit, that God was in Christ, reconciling the world unto himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them; and hath committed unto us the word of reconciliation. 5:20 Now then we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God did beseech you by us: we pray you in Christ's stead, be ye reconciled to God. 5:21 For he hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him.
Until that day when HE ALONE decides against the WILLINGLY lost to.. "speak unto them IN HIS WRATH, and VEX them in his SORE displeasure." Pslam 2:5.
And that is only the kindest part of HIS WRATH...
Personally, what awaits you for your error is more than enough against you - it is no one's call to spit on so confused and lost an individual as you continue to appear to be.
Especially given that one CAN know for SURE whether or not they are saved or lost RIGHT NOW.
This IS a Principle taught IN the Scripture.
1 John 5:13 These things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God; that ye may know that ye have eternal life, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
Rom. 5:6-8 towards you.