Agreed, much confusion, and I'm not saying I've sorted it all.
But I have come to the conclusion that Jesus didn't abolish the law, not one iota of it.
If that were true, and love was all that mattered, we can all do what we want on the basis that it's loving.
But love must have a framework, and it's the law of God which gives this framework.
I know that adultery etc is unloving because the law tells me so.
Jesus fulfilled these things, but he didn't abolish them.
Certainly Jesus in his life fulfilled all aspects of the law, but that doesn't mean he abolished them.
But the reason why ceremonial aspects of the law aren't relevant to me isn't because Jesus abolished them, but because I am a gentile.
You are so close.
However, there are some things that I want to help you with.
I am so patient. I will walk you through this, repeat myself, and keep on, as long as you are willing. I do not want you to be confused. I am an enemy of Satan.
Jesus came and fulfilled the old law, and thus it changed.
We have a new law, it is the old law with some changes.
The old law was abolished, but not in the way many in falseness here claim.
The old law was abolished but is fulfilled in Christ, if you do everything that Jesus says.
Don't make it harder than it has to be.
The Old Testament is about what is earthly.
The New Testament is about what is spiritual.
The Old Testament is PROPHECIES about what was coming.
Jesus Christ came, and prophecies are revealed.
How are they revealed?
By obeying Jesus.
That is what the Word of God says.
If you do not recognize the scriptures just ask and I will show you exactly where they are in which I speak.