One of my mother's neighbors had a sign:
"We shoot every third missionary, and the second one just left."
"We shoot every third missionary, and the second one just left."
Good points. Now all I need to do is learn Greek . . . :think:As to the OP, I always invite them in, break out my Greek NT, and keep them occupied for as long as I possibly can. The more time they spend with me the less time they have to try to convert someone else.
I have had more than a few visits. I live in Arizona, after all.
I ask them in, offer refreshments, and them move them to my study, which is basically full of bookcases of theological books, including an entire bookcase with nothing but bibles.
I give them my card, containing my email address, and links to a couple of web sites with theological themes. I pull out a notepad, write down their names, ask them for their ward and stake information, which I make note of, then ask them what text we will be discussing (KJV bible, D.a.C., P.o.G.P., etc.). I take that text from my shelf and let them proceed. We sometimes start with prayer and I ask if I could lead. Occasionally, they allow me to do so, probably because they seem intimidated by my study or my old age. Who knows?
As they proceed in the scripted manner of their training, I take plenty of notes, and then feed back to them what they have stated, while asking pointed questions designed to make them think deeper. My questions revolve around two themes: "Who is God?" and "Who is Jesus Christ?" These are two most important questions of our lives. Either we have these right or we are worshiping nothing but idols. :squint:
Sometimes these meetings end abruptly, sometimes they last for an hour or two. No matter, I use the time to plant a few seeds that I hope will send them on their way with some "homework" at the end of their long day. On two occasions in the past seventeen years, they returned with one of the bishops for more discussion. But this stopped once it became known that I was a good friend with the stake president (see below).
In all these meetings, I remain respectful and cognizant of the fact that I am dealing with youthful enthusiasts, and all that accompanies that stage of a young man's development.
My accountant is a stake president and he has commented to me that word reached him about this guy down in Chandler who was civil to the local missionaries and had asked some "tough questions".
One of these missionaries who met with me some twelve years ago, is now a CIA branch officer in a major U.S. city and a very ardent Southern Baptist. He tells me that the time we met, while not shaking his faith in Mormonism at the time, did plant a small seed of doubt that ultimately led to his leaving Mormonism. He graciously told me that his time spent in Arizona while a missionary was memorable in one sense because of his visit in my home. When I asked him what was so memorable, he replied that I was kind to him and his fellow missionary, he really envied my library of books, and he was troubled by his inability to engage effectively in our discussion.
Other than this one account, I have no idea if my meetings with these young men were fruitful.
AMR