I hate people who molest and murder young children. Does that make me weak and untrustworthy?
Are such people your enemies?
They are my enemies. And God told me not to hate them.
Matthew 5:44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;
I am strong enough to do that.
Are you? Or are they not your enemies? Have you not realized this?