:nono: I can't tell you better. God does really mean what He says. You are right.
No, not what it means. Again "not like a man nor thinks like a man..." Numbers 23:19 Isaiah 55:8,9
Verses like this are explicit in meaning. He is different from us.
The verses are indeed explicit in meaning, but the meaning you've written is not the one from these scriptures. They don't say "He is different from us", but "He is better than we are." He doesn't lie, lying is a sin, God doesn't do that. His thoughts are not ours (vs 8) because they are higher than ours (vs 9). You admit as much in your next sentence (below). If we apply that to emotions, and whether God can be moved by us or something else, scripture is pretty explicit about that, too. God is moved by our emotions, not to deviate from His plan or counsel, but in the midst of fulfilling His plan or counsel, to give us what we request (for instance). Why is that a concept that can't be allowed when scripture is full of such things?
Again, I liken this to basic math vs higher math. If one can grasp, good, if not, I'm not particularly bothered. God meets 'us' where we are at. While we can influence one another and lift one another toward Him, I'm completely convinced we are in His hands and they are capable, He is sovereign. What is meant by God's 'impassibility' is that God cannot love us 'more.' Think of it this way: "IF" God is perfect, doesn't He ALREADY love you completely? Rather, we 'access' what is already there AND perfect. Therefore 'we' experience His love more, His love is the same as it always was. For an Open Theist, that's about anathema because then God isn't 'moved' by our prayers. That's not the case, rather we 'access' what God ALREADY wants to do for us.
But your concept here does not make God less moved--it only puts the moving into the act of giving what He wants us to have, but still (possibly) waiting until we ask. I don't think many Open Theists are trying to say that we can change God's counsel or plans by our prayers, unless EVERYTHING that happens is God's counsel or plans (Calvinism). So it seems that you come at it from a preconception that God wants everything to happen that happens. Maybe I'm misunderstanding your point here.
Imho, if we get this wrong, we then start 'actually' anthropomorphizing God and His scriptures. To me and for me, that is wrought with all of 'my' emotions. I've been there, done that. I went through quite a bit of turmoil in my younger years. I don't want to go too much into it, but the day I found out God isn't subject to whim, that when He said He was going to destroy Israel, and Moses interceded, that it was for Moses' benefit.
But you're getting that impression of God and His interaction with Moses from your emotions, not from the scripture. If you look at the scripture, it's pretty clear that God not only threatened to do away with much of Israel, He also repented of what he was going to do. Can God repent of something He was going to do? Can He decide to do different? Not in your view. Thus, that part of the scripture is superfluous, leading us to an incorrect picture of God, if it's not something He had decided to do. As others have said, what is the intention of the words: "So the LORD relented from the harm which He said He would do to His people. [Exo 32:14 NKJV]", if God didn't really change His plan.
Here are the options (with consequences in parentheses):
1. God said it but didn't really mean it (God is a liar)
2. Moses misunderstood what God meant (Moses' writings are not trustworthy)
3. God said it, and meant it, and Moses understood it correctly (Calvinism is untrustworthy)
Which consequence would you rather choose? I'm not saying it like this to demean Calvin or those that agree with him, but these are logical consequences. Maybe there are other options, but just calling it an anthropomorphism to get out of the obvious conclusion is not the best way to read the verse, imo.
God wasn't given to whim but the way the O.T. works, is to point to a mediator, a picture of Christ to come. It makes Israel's rejection of messiah, all the more tragic and sad. They were set up in everything to recognize the NEED for a mediator. Christ IS God's way of reaching us from His impassibility. He cannot change His nature or character, He CAN change ours! To me? That IS a huge part of the gospel: 1 Corinthians 15:52 1 John 3:2 2 Corinthians 5:17
I don't think I said anything about God changing His nature or character, did I? Unless you think that God's getting angry is a change in His character. If God is described by His word as getting angry (not in His BEING angry for all eternity), then it is His character to get angry sometimes. We should want to find out what makes Him angry and try not to do it.
I truncated this but it is the same idea whether God's love or anger. He isn't going to be 'more' angry when you sin. To me, that too is a huge comfort. God remains steadfast and trustworthy and without our passions BECAUSE He is already perfect (just right) in all of them. IOW, you don't WANT a God that you can make 'love you more' or can unfortunately make 'more angry with you.' The trade-off for a 'relational' God is a "God who moves" rather than a God who is perfect. It all ties together as we discuss God 'moving through' His creation or through time on exactly the same level and concern.
I don't think we can MAKE God love us, and the bible says He loved us before we loved Him. But can we make God angry? Shall I list the scriptures that show that is possible? How much time and space do you have? If we don't make God angry with our sin, and God gets angry because of sin, then God makes Himself angry. Which means, I think, that God is the author of sin.
I think I would rather God get angry because of my (and others') sin than that He gets angry because of some unaccessible reason that happened "before" time and before I (and others) existed, and that He will destroy the whole world for.
What I REALLY enjoyed about my stepfather was that he was VERY even keeled. I didn't enjoy the emotional (relational?) roller-coaster of emotions that I could elicit. Oh, it might have been good for the "love" thing, but it was horrible if I screwed up. My father had a goal in mind: To make 'me' the best me I could be. After a childhood fraught with extremes, it was exactly what I needed. Later, reading scripture, I realized it was what we ALL need! 2 Timothy 2:13 was/is beautiful.
I believe if you try and attach these terms to a 'good' parent: both "relational" AND "consistent, dependable, unchanging (impassible), then you have a father or mother that cares and is seeing the bigger picture AND isn't given to emotionalism or a negative unpredictability.
IOW, you want BOTH relational AND even-keeled and consistent in a love that is ALWAYS pulling for you. My step-father used to say, "We aren't perfect parents. If they ever come out with them, I will order you a pair. Until then, try to honor your mother and father faults and all." I love him for that (thus he wasn't impassible like God). Think then of impassibility as "dependable loving qualities that are NEVER going to change."
I appreciate your honoring description of your step father. But his strength seemed to be that he was consistent in how he used his anger. He didn't lash out uncontrollably. That doesn't mean he didn't get angry, but he got angry at the right times and for the right reasons--he was angry, but didn't sin.
A father that gets angry at the wrong things or for no discernable reason is a terror to his kids--they don't know how to act. A father that gets angry when his kids disobey and makes the punishment fit the crime is a loving father. His kids know what they did wrong and can correct it (hopefully).
The impassible god is the former, not the latter. He gets angry for some reason he dreamed up in eternity, and takes it out on people haphazardly, as far as they can tell. Thus, his anger is not productive in bringing people to repentance.
There is no cure for an impassibly angry god. There is one for the
perfectly angry God, the one that gets angry when and because people disobey Him, even if that cure can't come from those people.