No, that proves I'm right because you just brought us via a shortcut to the same point as above: if a saved person must confess each sin in order for it to be forgiven else he won't STAY saved, then he is in fact not ACTUALLY saved in the Biblical usage of the word -- SAFE -- because he may yet fail to confess sins and thereby be damned.
That is the inescapable logic of your position. You do not believe in salvation as Paul said it; complete forgiveness and justification in Christ.
You (and most of TOL) believe in PROBATION...eternity depending upon your conduct.
That is not what I am saying.
Jesus chooses to save those he saves.
The gospel message is sent to those who fear God and do what is right.
God looks at our heart before He saves us, and Jesus teaches us how to make our heart and prepare it for him to make his home there.
We are told by John the baptizer, Jesus Christ Himself, all the Apostles, and Paul too that we must turn to God, have faith in Jesus and repent of our sins.
After we are saved, Jesus lives to intercede for us...he is interceding for us...he is our High Priest.
If you sin and keep sinning and do not talk to God about it and do not work out your salvation and do not train yourself and do not live a life worthy of what you received---then what kind of salvation do you think you have anyway?