Then let me ask you this:
In Proverbs, we see that the Lord God hates 7 things:
These six things the Lord hates, Yes, seven are an abomination to Him:
A proud look,
A lying tongue,
Hands that shed innocent blood,
A heart that devises wicked plans,
Feet that are swift in running to evil,
A false witness who speaks lies,
And one who sows discord among brethren. - Proverbs 6:16-19
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs6:16-19&version=NKJV
Now, does God hate the appearance, the tongue, the hands, the heart, the feet of those who do those things?
Or does He hate the one who does and is those things?
The last two are the ones where this is especially clear:
God hates the one who does those things...
The one who has a proud look.
The one who has a lying tongue.
The one who sheds innocent blood with his hands.
The one who devises wicked plans in his mind.
The one who quickly runs to evil.
The one who bears false witness.
And the one who causes contention.
Question is, where is God on all that during this Mystery Age's Uniquely its' Own Grace?
At the Cross, that's where.
2 Corinthians 5:19 To wit, that God was in Christ, reconciling the world unto himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them; and hath committed unto us the word of reconciliation. 5:20 Now then we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God did beseech you by us: we pray you in Christ's stead, be ye reconciled to God. 5:21 For he hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him.
In other words...
Romans 9:22 What if God, willing to shew his wrath, and to make his power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath fitted to destruction: 9:23 And that he might make known the riches of his glory on the vessels of mercy, which he had afore prepared unto glory, 9:24 Even us, whom he hath called, not of the Jews only, but also of the Gentiles?
And although that is where things still are to this day, that is not the end of it.
Romans 9:28 For he will finish the work, and cut it short in righteousness: because a short work will the Lord make upon the earth.
But this short work upon the Earth is not His focus during this Mystery Age - no matter how tempted we might be to want to run to the Law to justify our need to turn the Law into a means of backing up our sense of unease with this fallen world.
For God has set His OWN Timeline for said repaying...
Romans 11:25 For I would not, brethren, that ye should be ignorant of this mystery, lest ye should be wise in your own conceits; that blindness in part is happened to Israel, until the fulness of the Gentiles be come in.
THAT is the case for now...
11:32 For God hath concluded them all in unbelief, that he might have mercy upon all.
For during this Mystery Age's Grace, He hath concluded all under sin, that He might have MERCY upon all - He is NOT imputing sin during this Mystery Age.
The result being that the Believer's outlook during this Mystery Age's Unique Grace, is to be that of God's Own outlook during this Mystery Age's Unique Grace...
That of...
Romans 12:19 Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. 12:20 Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. 12:21 Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
Philippians 1:28 And in nothing terrified by your adversaries: which is to them an evident token of perdition, but to you of salvation, and that of God.
2 Thessalonians 1:4 So that we ourselves glory in you in the churches of God for your patience and faith in all your persecutions and tribulations that ye endure: 1:5 Which is a manifest token of the righteous judgment of God, that ye may be counted worthy of the kingdom of God, for which ye also suffer: 1:6 Seeing it is a righteous thing with God to recompense tribulation to them that trouble you; 1:7 And to you who are troubled rest with us, when the Lord Jesus shall be revealed from heaven with his mighty angels, 1:8 In flaming fire taking vengeance on them that know not God, and that obey not the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ: 1:9 Who shall be punished with everlasting destruction from the presence of the Lord, and from the glory of his power; 1:10 When he shall come to be glorified in his saints, and to be admired in all them that believe (because our testimony among you was believed) in that day.
God solved for what is to be the Believer's perspective during this Mystery Age as to the fallen ways of men, long ago, back when the same issues you have raised, were raised and solved for, in Paul's day, vis his God given replies to same.
I'm reminded of 911.
Back then, many asked "where was God?"
I remember thinking, in reply to that, back then 'where He has been for the past two thousand years - at the Cross...'
'911? It WAS nothing - compared to where God was, two thousand years ago - at the Cross!'
'911? It IS nothing - compared to where God is today - at the Cross!'
1 Corinthians 1:23 But we preach Christ crucified, unto the Jews a stumblingblock, and unto the Greeks foolishness; 1:24 But unto them which are called, both Jews and Greeks, Christ the power of God, and the wisdom of God.
The ground remains level, at the foot of...The Cross.
Romans 5:7 For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. 5:8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.