Well, that's more of a 'religious' conviction on your part then isn't it? I'm not saying you think anything other should be a crime as such but in regards to the thread it's only the hyper zealous 'right' that advocate such penalties for any sort of sex outside of the boundaries you put forward.
Sure, it is my religious conviction.
But I'm not really talking about this as a religious conviction, because folks can see reasons it is wrong without being religious at all.
I know but in relation to the OP it's relevant to point it out.
Yes, to look at a situation from every angle should be considered.
But at the same time, it's not good to keep bringing up other angles when discussing a particular one, but to take one angle at a time.
Ok, for me personally I would consider adultery to be an act of betrayal to someone I'd made a vow to and even if there were things going askew in the relationship then I'd be far from proud of myself if I had a fling with someone else. It's not the way I would go but then my circumstances could differ to someone else's. I could hardly condemn someone who's trapped in a loveless marriage seeking warmth from another. It's not cut and dried.
I could understand someone divorcing their spouse for abusiveness.
But not adultery.
There are exceptions to some rules, but that doesn't make the rule a bad thing.
As for your latter then it simply wouldn't be an option for me to have any sort of physical intimacy with another bloke let alone the act you were kinda needlessly graphic on. That particular act doesn't appeal to me as a heterosexual man with a woman so you're fixating on one particular that many a heterosexual married couple engage in so what about other sexual practices that aren't the 'standard' exactly? Oral sex, fetish, roleplay etc, just within a heterosexual marriage?
I believe that sticking your body member into another person's poop dumper hole is not only wrong, but downright nasty.
And then taking that same sloppy body member and sticking it into that person's mouth is just as wrong and nasty.
Doesn't matter if you are hetro or homo; it's nasty and was not intended for that use.
I think there's way more important issues in life than the sexual proclivities of consenting adults even if I've no such proclivity myself would be my honest answer.
There are lots more issues to discuss.
This is just one of them.
It's graphic and unsettling, to say the least.
But this very nastiness is the main theme of homos.
It's what they do.
To use another of the same sex sexually, nastiness is about all they can do.
I don't consider it 'wrong' per se if that wasn't already clear.
I think you have cleared that up.
Thanks.