Do you not yet see that all your doctrines are about YOU?
That IS the problem; the whole movement centers around them.
Sometime ago, I was visiting some friend of mine during their preparations with their daughter about her upcoming wedding...
At one point she became upset because she believed, as she put it, she wanted "things to be just right so that" she "could feel the Holy Spirit's presence at my wedding..."
The poor thing's focus was on her feelings...
And there is no reasoning with such about these things; they feel what they believe is, and "is of God..."
Like attempting to reason with someone who's so called significant other is clearly up to no good.
Their discernment having become one with what they feel...
Solution though?
From those of us who supposedly know better?
Now, that too often also ends up making things worse...