Quincy
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hmm, I know people who claim that they've been gay from a young age with no abuse or any outside stimuli to factor into the equation, to be honest I see no reason why these people would lie about it, when I was a bit younger there was (and still is really) a real stigma attached to it and it isnt something that I can imagine people choosing to be because of the hostility and bullying that could happen as a result, I'm aware that gay people can be sex obsessed and i've known a couple who would fit the description of the lifestyle you give, i've also known others who didnt sleep around and have multiple partners the same as I know many heterosexuals who both do and dont lead promiscuous lives, I dont see this as a black and white issue at all...... :think:
i agree. i know some homosexuals who at least claim to have not had any outside influences in life to create their lifestyle. my best friend in high school was one such lesbian. heck i fit right in with her, im a lesbian i love women so heck yeah lol. anyways jokes aside, she was rediculed and tormented every day. beofre i knew her i would see her name wrote on walls with vulgarities after it. it got so bad that once she got dragged into the bathroom and a bunch of perps wrote slander all over her. that burned me up and i befriended her and watched out for her and what not. now she has changed her sexual preferences, and perhaps at that stage in life she was just confused. however ur right. many do not have any hardship in life until the admit they are homosexual.
i sometimes think homophobs result to violence in an act of what they see as deterance, but in reality is actually hate crimes. if people are scared they wont ever act on or admit their urges. my take on homosexuality is its fine as long as its not forced upon the unwilling. i just happen to be one of the unwilling, but i have nothing against friendship with anyone, regardless their labels.