I can see you don't understand what that means, I just hope that God opens you're eyes one day, because it certainly doesn't mean that we are reconciled to God whilst we hate him, and there is absolutely no reconciliation for a heart that hates God. We are to truly repent and turn to God first, before any chance of reconciliation. This is what Jesus himself taught, repentance comes before forgiveness, and as we forgive others, God forgives us.
Read the parable of the prodigal son, he wasn't reconciled to his father whilst hating him, although the father always loved him and was looking out for him to return, he had to come back to him. Your teachings aren't the truth, no one is reconciled to God whilst they still hate him, and we must believe in him and listen to what Jesus teaches, and that is to go to God and repent, turn to him and then we are saved from our past sins and death by the grace of God and through faith, and if we truly repent, then we will turn away from those sins. We then through Christ and through faith and love, obey God and do his will, and follow Jesus.