The unborn are people we actually got. We should care for all of them.
Agreed. So let's shift priorities.
First, stop the war on sex already. Enough. Hasn't worked, never worked. Want to reduce unwanted pregnancies and abortion? Stop standing in the way of birth control, for crying out loud. Let's drop the paranoia surrounding sex-ed, while we're at it.
Second, maybe take this Quiverfull mentality and turn it into an adoption-first mentality.
19 Adoptions and counting--now there's a heck of a premise for reality TV. Unwanted children abound. The pro-life movement knows darn well how to leverage the ballot. Demand a less onerous process that enables people who want to adopt to actually be able to.
Third, drop the intimidation game. Scare tactics, gore, stalking, and everything else? Gone. Stop Dumpster diving for an abortionist's home address and use that time and energy towards eliminating the need for his services in the first place. Educate people. Nip this in the bud by preventing unwanted or unplanned pregnancies in the first place. The zealots holding signs could use their time better. If you have time to stalk or stand for hours yelling at women who in many cases are just picking up contraceptives you might have enough time to be a foster parent.
Fourth, acknowledge the reality: Abortion is going to happen and is still the law of the land. It may well be a medical necessity. Some circumstances do require more than a black or white judgment call. Absolutism is safe on paper. Doesn't work that way in life.