Sorry , you can't pass go without surrendering your life to Jesus! That's what this is all about!
No easier softer way!
No, nope, and nah...
The surrender is built in.
You are stuck in Romans 7.
You need to get into Romans 8 - in light of Romans 1 - 5.
You're talking something YOU bring to the table. Romans 7 through...and...through.
That is not Grace motivation, that is your AA "step up to the plate and make that change" deal with some higher power that has absolutely nothing to do with the Cross nor its reason.
I swear; its as if you have concluded that Phillipians 3 is Paul standing up at an AA meeting...
That is not how Grace Motivation works. The Law proved one can not legislate anyone's morality.
O I'm sure you feel real good, and "o so much closer to God," with each time at bat and all that.
And O how you love Jesus and want that for one and all...
But that is not how Grace Motivation works...
Rather, faith; which worketh (is empowered) by (His great) love (wherewith He loved us such, that He died for us).
And the way that works is not "here's ten action steps for getting closer to God..."
Rather, as the Believer grows in knowledge of God's love for him in His Son by His Spirit through time in His Word learning about this great love wherewith He loved Him, this love empowers his walk in Him.
"No Help Wanted, Worker Bees Need Not Bother."
What does Paul tell the very assembly that would have driven you back to the bottle; you are so determined that others just sign on the dotted line of this Emancipation Annihilation of yours?
What did Paul write the Corinthians about all this?
2 Corinthians 1:24 Not for that we have dominion over your faith, but are helpers of your joy: for by faith ye stand.
The faith OF Christ.
Galatians 2:20 I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me. 2:21 I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.
See that - Grace Motivation!
2 Corinthians 5:14 For the love of Christ constraineth us; because we thus judge, that if one died for all, then were all dead: 5:15 And that he died for all, that they which live should not henceforth live unto themselves, but unto him which died for them, and rose again.
He died that those he died for might be empowered by said love of His for them not to live unto themselves, but unto Him.
How? As one grows in an understanding of this great love of His wherewith He died for them.
As a mother and child's love naturally grows. It is not legislated!
It is not "see this Greek word here - follow it - make me happy!"
Look, grace is not grace unless it is willing to risk the abuse the Son risked - murdered under his warm sun, on His Earth, using wood and metal fashioned out of His creation, by His creation!
That is great love indeed! That is Grace!
I know, I know, but the Greek...
1 Corinthians 1:23 But we preach Christ crucified, unto the Jews a stumblingblock, and unto the Greeks foolishness; 1:24 But unto them which are called, both Jews and Greeks, Christ the power of God, and the wisdom of God.
End of distortion...