Again, try not to assume that because something did not work in the past that it will not work again.That failed a long time ago, a7. When I did, and do, your replies are filled with insult and innuendo, are totally off point and generally, quite frankly, drivel-laden psychobabbling pontifications.
Why is it a "delusion" and not an "opinion"?No. It is well-deserved analysis of a :Commie: control freak who lives in a universe of delusions.
I readily admit that I probably come across that way to a lot of people (Too many people at that).there are many people, such as yourself, who believe that others are stupidly ignorant fools who need their guidance and direction.
If you cannot see how your family is responsible for your unthinking cruelty to others, then you can go through life as a sleepwalker. Being able to see one's parents as human who did the best they could at the time is important and will prevent us from putting them on a pedestal or denigrating them for passing along what was given to themselves by their parents.Oh! I though you had something relevant to say when all you wanted to do was insult and denigrate my parents. As it is, my sainted parents are, and have been, for many years, beyond the ignorant, simplistic and cursory scrutiny of reprobates such as yourself.
It's certainly dysfunctional to dismiss and discount other's feelings. If I say something to someone and they say they are hurt by what I said, instead of blaming them I try to look for the kernel of truth in their words. I try to immediately apologize and try to avoid hurting them any longer.I don't. Whatever faux "humiliation" you are experiencing is entirely of your own delusional invention.
Debt in
2009 $11.9 trillion
2010 $13.5 trillion (stimulus spending)
2014 $17.8 trillion
Don't ever let facts get in the way.
I don't have to assume anything. The historical record is filled with examples proving, by a preponderance of evidence, that attempting to implement failure by hoping for a different outcome is insanity.Again, try not to assume that because something did not work in the past that it will not work again.
Get over yourself, a7. These fumbling stumblings at grasping control and playing the poor victim don't work. (I do marvel at the passive-aggressive personality type.)First of all, look to yourself. What specific way did you attempt your previous actions? Second, have back at me with specific criticism on how I responded to you.
:darwinsm: Dear Dr. Freud, you should have seated yourself earlier.What did it feel like to you? Did it trigger some hurt feelings on your part?
:yawn:Be honest and fully feel your emotions, give them a name and express them to me kindly. There is no call to be insulting and cruel.
:idea: I can compromise on that! Your "opinion" is "delusional."Why is it a "delusion" and not an "opinion"?
No, I cannot simply say what you are demanding I say.Can't you simply say you have a difference of opinion with me and then go from there?
Not my problem.I readily admit that I probably come across that way to a lot of people (Too many people at that).
Or, perhaps, a less boorish way. This act of yours is starting to get stale.If you can point out specific words and phrases that made you feel put down, victimized or mocked, please let me know so that I can find more adult ways to communicate.
I'm not your therapist.I freely admit to my mistakes but I need specific criticism from others so I can learn how to be a better person.
Poor, hurt, put-upon, a7, reaching out for help. Who could not feel sympathetic? It's like watching one of those fund-raising commercials for ASPCA. (This hurt, pathetic, abandoned puppy need your help. Send us your dollars an we will send you a picture of a hurt, pathetic, abandoned puppy.)If you are going to name-call and label, it is not going to help me at all.
:darwinsm: A Luke 23:34 (KJV) moment.Try to be kind, Frank. I am sorry you feel the way you do, otherwise you would not be so hurtful and defensive.
You really do need to call the crisis folks.If you do not recognize yourself as a child of your parents and your own family, you are still trying to protect your parents. This is why Jesus made so many savage attacks on family values and did it very very often (Let the dead bury the dead, the blessed family are those who do the will of God, not those who have been suckled by their mother, call no one on earth your father, I bring division between the generations who live under one roof, If any one comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple, etc.)
What? :darwinsm:Obviously I have struck a raw nerve and I apologize to you.
If you feel I attacked your parents, I am truly sorry. It took me a long time to grow up and get beyond criticizing or protecting my own mother and dad. I sometimes forget that some people are still unable or unwilling to do such a thing.
Help me do what?I don't feel I honor my parents for being blind to my own upbringing.
So I must have been projecting--which obviously didn't help you at all.
:darwinsm: A Luke 6:42 (KJV) moment.If you cannot see how your family is responsible for your unthinking cruelty to others, then you can go through life as a sleepwalker. Being able to see one's parents as human who did the best they could at the time is important and will prevent us from putting them on a pedestal or denigrating them for passing along what was given to themselves by their parents.
It's certainly dysfunctional to dismiss and discount other's feelings. If I say something to someone and they say they are hurt by what I said, instead of blaming them I try to look for the kernel of truth in their words. I try to immediately apologize and try to avoid hurting them any longer.
You are one step away from believing you're Jesus. Get help NOW!The world, unfortunately, is filled with national leaders and groups who apparently believe it best to protect their own parents from adult scrutiny.
Hitler, Saddam Hussein, the leadership of Isis, etc. are all characterized by horrific abuse in their families.
Sadism is not some infectious disease that strikes a person all of a sudden. It has a long prehistory in childhood and always originates in the desperate fantasies of a child who is searching for a way out of a hopeless situation. Research and academics have long known this, but if you regard scientists and researchers as elite and erroneous, I can understand why more people are unaware of this. At least serial killers are being recognized as having abusive childhoods and who re-enacted their own pain by torturing animals when they were growing up. It's going to take being accountable and learning to be able to see the patterns.
...and the crowd came together again, so that they could not even eat.
And when his family heard it, they went out to seize him, for people were saying, "He is beside himself."
Since Obama, America's deficit has been reduced by trillions.
The Jesus "you know" is mostly of your own invention.My beliefs are my own and have nothing to do with the Jesus I know.
Ok. So?I do not accept the idea that a Christian has to believe in some lists of first-century theology to be a member of the church. I believe in a Jesus who preached the Kingdom of God ON EARTH as it is in Heaven.
So? I see you as exactly that.Life before death is where the problems are. The poor, the abandoned, the captives, the sinners--these are the things that confront and challenge me, not a bureaucracy of a church that merged with the Roman Empire in 325 AD.
Let's face it: you seem to be quite happy with a different version of Christianity. Unfortunately, I see this version the way most people in the modern world see it--authoritative, hypocritical, other-worldly, bigoted and elitist.
So you have problems with people you are trying to browbeat into submission.My cherry-picking also tells me most believers are both unable to understand and confront the criticism of the faith, nor do they know how to respond to it in any reasonable way.
I see. This mythical "global culture" is secular humanist then?The global culture sees a link between both Islam and Christianity and has no use for either.
:darwinsm:Finally, *again*, you must try to be kind and reasonable. Name-calling and facile judgments will just not do it anymore. Such behavior only causes people to turn away from you and run.