What you state about your non-problem doesn't matter. It doesn't equate.
The point being, you are not the example. What you experience is NOT the experience of those who develop an unnatural attraction for the same sex. They develop that attraction when they choose to turn against their own conscience.
As I said, what comes natural to a man just comes....he doesn't have to think about it. He was created that way. On the other hand, when one chooses to ignore his conscience (which tells him it's wrong), and then he goes ahead and does it, he has to hide it (closet comes to mind). But, with so many saying it's normal for some, it allows some to flaunt it.