This sounds great, unless God truly founded a church, and the doctrine of that church is God's true doctrine.
This really isn't a reason, in itself, to disagree with any particular teaching. You're saying I ought to disagree, just for disagreement's sake.
If Christ Himself was teaching you, would you feel that you absolutely had to disagree with at least some of His teachings, in order to not be a "Stepford Wife" ?
But the other guy (your other truly sola scriptura friend) says the Holy Spirit told him something contradictory to what It told you. So... how do you know you're right?
Glassjester
You cannot see anything wrong with your church, yet even the Pope is desperately trying to change the Catholic church.
And it does not matter which doctrine I highlight as needing reform, you would find no wrong with anything your church teaches. The Stepford brethren I attend with are just like you. They are right, all others are wrong. And their attitude frightens me just as yours does.
To them Christianity consists of finding the right Church and blindly doing whatever it teaches for the rest of their lives. That is your policy, right? If the Pope changes, you will change - otherwise nothing I say will convince you, Right?
Speaking with you, as enjoyable as it is, is like talking to my past self. Nothing anyone could have said to me would have convinced me that my cult was anything except faultless. Unless God had reached down, and disrupted the cult, I would be sleepwalking still today.
The Catholic Church is just Christianity's biggest cult. Do a Google search on cult thinking, and how to deliver people from cults, and the psychological dependance which keeps them in a cult.
Deikman says this in his book "Them - Us"...
"Why people join cults
"Cults form and thrive,” says Deikman, “not because people are crazy, but because they have two kinds of wishes. They want a meaningful life, to serve God or humanity; and they want to be taken care of, to feel protected and secure, to find a home. The first motives may be laudable and constructive, but the latter exert a corrupting effect, enabling cult leaders to elicit behaviour directly opposite to the idealistic vision with which members entered the group.
Usually, in psychiatry and psychology, the wish to be taken care of (to find a home, a parent) is called dependency and this is a rather damning label when applied to adults. Adults are not supposed to be dependent in that way, relying on another as a child would rely on a mother or father. We are supposed to be autonomous, self-sustaining, with the capacity to go it alone. We do recognise that adults need each other for emotional support, for giving and receiving affection, for validation; that is acceptable and sanctioned. But underlying such mature interdependency is the longing of the child, a yearning that is never completely outgrown. This covert dependency — the wish to have parents and the parallel wish to be loved, admired and sheltered by one's group — continues throughout life in everyone. These wishes generate a hidden fantasy or dream that can transform a leader into a strong, wise, protective parent and a group into a close, accepting family. Within that dream we feel secure.”
You asked...
"If Christ Himself was teaching you, would you feel that you absolutely
had to disagree with at least
some of His teachings, in order to not be a "Stepford Wife" ? "
You do understand there is a difference between Christ teaching through His Holy Spirit, and the church teaching via some hierarchy?
For you a good start WOULD be to find some little thing your church has done wrong. That should not be hard since you have 2000 years, the Dark Ages, the Spanish Inquisition etc. to help you.
You also asked" So... how do you know you're right?"
I research every single scripture on a particular doctrine for myself, using Bible software.
On the count of three you are going to wake up...
One...
Two...
THREE...