And when you saw the word frigid, you though immediately of sex, didn't you? :think:
		
		
	 
frigid
[frij-id]
    Synonyms
    Examples
    Word Origin
adjective
1.
very cold in temperature:
a frigid climate.
2.
without warmth of feeling; without ardor or enthusiasm:
a frigid reaction to the suggested law.
3.
stiff or formal:
a welcome that was polite but frigid.
4.
    inhibited in the ability to experience sexual excitement during sexual activity.
    unresponsive to sexual advances or stimuli.
5.
unemotional or unimaginative; lacking passion, sympathy, or sensitivity:
a correct, but frigid presentation.
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Based on the Random House Dictionary, © Random House, Inc. 2015.
I am not frigid by any of the 5 above definitions.  My husband has no problem with me finding a good looking man handsome.  He's not insecure.