Ask, and you shall receive.
The Bible clearly teaches us that no man can go to God of their own will:
John 6:44
No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him; and I will raise him up at the last day.
Romans 8:7-8
Because the carnal mind is enmity against God; for it is not subject to the law of God, nor indeed can be. So then, those who are in the flesh cannot please God.
Ephesians 2:1, 4-5, 8-9
And you He made alive, who were dead in trespasses and sins...
But God, who is rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in trespasses, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved)...
For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast.
Titus 3:3-7
For we ourselves were also once foolish, disobedient, deceived, serving various lusts and pleasures, living in malice and envy, hateful and hating one another. But when the kindness and the love of God our Savior toward man appeared, not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to His mercy He saved us, through the washing of regeneration and renewing of the Holy Spirit, whom He poured out on us abundantly through Jesus Christ our Savior, that having been justified by His grace we should become heirs according to the hope of eternal life.
2 Corinthians 4:6
For it is the God who commanded light to shine out of darkness, who has shone in our hearts to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ.
Acts 13:48
Now when the Gentiles heard this, they were glad and glorified the word of the Lord. And as many as had been appointed to eternal life believed.
John 15:16
You did not choose Me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit, and that your fruit should remain, that whatever you ask the Father in My name He may give you.
Romans 3:11
There is none who understands; There is none who seeks after God.
The Holy Spirit convicts, convinces, draws, persuades, woos, enables, etc. This does not mean than our mind and volition is not involved. God uses men to appeal to other men with the truth of the Gospel. He commands us to repent, believe, be born again, etc. If it was literally impossible to do so, He is misleading us. It would also remove responsibility/accountability. Total depravity does not mean total inability. The image of God is defaced, not erased.
And I can go on, and on, and on... This should be enough for you to chew on a while....