Let's say a man sees a woman, and he falls in love with her, but she does not reciprocate his feelings for her. So he grabs her and takes her to his home, pushes her into a room, and then boards up the doors and windows, preventing her from leaving.
Another man sees a woman, and he falls in love with her, but unlike the first woman, she loves him in return. So he grabs her and takes her to his home, but tells her that if she wants to leave, then at any time, she may.
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@kjw47 which man is a good man, and which man is an evil man?