That is a bit vague. What have I claimed about how any relationship with God works that you object to?
No relationship with God can function when built upon the foundation of "presumption."
My life is a gift from God though the marvelous work of Jesus Christ. I cannot surrender that which is not mine.
Then what is it you presume to have been "gifted"?
I may try to grasp at it at times so that it may seem as though I have control, but God has complete sovereignty and all things are going just as He has planned according to His will.
You have no and can have no clue as to what you presume upon.
If you say God has gifted you something, anything, that is what He wants back from you that He might use it, reveal it FROM His gifted life within you, i.e., as a government that explains Himself as Jesus exampled. But you say you have nothing. __ I believe that. I say it is not a gift but a responsibility we have been "gifted", if we say we have been born again.
"But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light:" 1 Peter 2:9 (KJV)