Agreed the only thing good in anyone is God Himself, and yes He gets all the credit, it is only by His grace.
But He also says He died for the world not just a select few that are either lucky enough or somehow more loved than the others. Along those same lines He says He wants all men to be saved. Why? Because He loves them all.
The only logical conclusion is that our will comes into play, not will to choose right or wrong, but the choice to submit to Him.
This theology is also in line with the rationality of love and worship, which wouldn't even be love and worship if it was some kind of robotic endeavor.
Your theology makes no sense, it has no answer for evil, and it diminishes love and the love God has.
Further telling the lambs it's safe to play with the roaring lion that is looking to devour, is lunacy.
Paul was taught to fear God in a special way, but that experience does not happen to us all. Why would we even be taught to fear God if it wasn't possible for us to refuse him?
Finally I did refuse Him, after experiencing His love, much to my demise, taken no doubt to the brink of life and death, before I said yes LORD I need you again. You will say that was because of His grace, which yes it was, but that doesn't mean I am loved more or any more special than anyone else God loves and yet falls to destroying lies of the Devil. But it has confirmed the truth of what His word says our choices matter. We reap what we sow, either to Him, or the self/flesh, we have choices to make (Galatians 6:8). Are we going to submit to Him or not?
You have experience of His mercy and that is unto all of creation. It's obvious you have no experience of His grace, because you honour Him with your words, but your heart* is far from Him.
heart...not the blood pump.