"The Bible doesn't advocate the mutilation of a woman for just threatening to use force. It includes the circumstances in which she uses that force and also the kind of force she uses. Given those barriers, I'm willing to advocate the enforcement of God's Law. If that enforcement includes the above, then yes."
Why isn't this mutilation mentioned for men? This gets back to the double standard. Keep in mind, as I've said before, that the husband's opponent takes a walk.
"Have you told God you think this law of His is patriarchal, one-sided and unfair?"
I don't think I need to "tell" him. If the Almighty can't read...well, he's not almighty then, is he?
"No, it's not just embarrassment, it's sexual humiliation. It appears to be considered to fall into the catagory of a 'mild' (for lack of a better word) form of rape. Rapists get the death penalty."
Knocking a guy in the crotch and buggering him are apples and oranges, Jeff. You're reaching. Where in the world do you get an idea that a blow to the groin in the heat of the moment constitutes "rape"? And what scriptural basis do you have for this idea? Splitting hairs between "embarrassment" and "humiliation" just shows how much you still need to squirm. Blowing more smoke.
Humiliating somebody doesn't really require you to mangle the person doing the humiliation, does it? Well, I guess so. Maybe this explains why Elisha called on a she-bear.
So, let's see if this follows: husband is fighting with Joe Blow. Wife intercedes. She "rapes" Joe Blow by nailing him in the crotch. Wife loses hand. Uh-huuuh.
"I consider sexual humiliation far worse than simply getting one's ego bruised."
Agreed. But there seems to be no consistent scriptural basis for punishing someone just for humiliating them.