@glorydaz ,
Did you say thank you to your husband when he gave you a gift? Do you ever say, "I love you." out loud to your spouse? Have you then somehow done something to deserve the gifts you've been given and relationship you have with him? Are these words you've spoken somehow payments against a debt you owe? Is it false for you to claim that you gave yourself freely to your husband in marriage because you said "I do."?
You're missing the point, Clete, and reacting on an emotional level. This isn't about me.
God has always required more from His chosen people than He requires of us.
Matt. 10:32 Whosoever therefore shall confess me before men, him will I confess also before my Father which is in heaven.
33 But whosoever shall deny me before men, him will I also deny before my Father which is in heaven.
Of course, as believers, we'll gladly confess the Lord as our Saviour, but it isn't any kind of requirement. The moment we believe, we are saved. There isn't even time to confess Him.....so the IF becomes moot for the church of God. Not so, with the Jewish believers. Which is who Paul is talking about in Romans 10.
Peter is a good example. Peter learned through the Cornelius episode that he was no longer under the law
for righteousness. He kept the law because he was zealous for the law. The law will be in force during the Kingdom. The law isn't bad, it just can't produce righteousness. It was confessing Jesus Christ as the Son of God that gave Peter eternal life. Faith in His name, which is why they had to confess His name.
John 20:31 But these are written, that ye might believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God; and that believing ye might have life through his name.
Acts 8:37 And Philip said, If thou believest with all thine heart, thou mayest. And he answered and said,
I believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of God.
1 John 4:2 Hereby know ye the Spirit of God: Every spirit that confesseth that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh is of God:
2 John 7 For many deceivers are entered into the world, who confess not that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh. This is a deceiver and an antichrist.