Bling
Bling
bling said:
I do not see Adam and Eve not loving God like children love a wonderful parent, they just did not Godly love God. Good kids with great parents still at some point disobey their parents, but it is not because they do not have a child’s love for a parent. We have nothing that says Adam and Eve cut off their fellowship with God and we do not ever see them developing a decision type love for God. Adam and Eve would have had an extinctive type love that God would have given them (love those that do good to you.)
Will I am back to saying you can fellowship with lesser loves then Godly love. I go back to the story of extremely wonderful Christ like parents with Christ indwelling them fully and their children in full fellowship with them and yet the children disobey the parents.
We have talked about different loves often and scripture uses different words for different love to some extent (there are 4 words in Greek and I think there are 14 different words in German, while English has the one). Godly type love is very different then all the other types of love, because it takes everything, is a commitment with choices, it is sacrificial, and selfless. That type of love was never developed by Adam and Eve and may have been impossible to develop in humans in the Garden. All other loves seem to be present with Adam and Eve. The sin has to do with eating the fruit not fellowship, they were not punished for not loving God or not fellowshipping God, but disobeying God. It appears they would have liked to stay in the Garden and been in fellowship with God or there would be no need to guard the garden, just remove the tree of life.
Yes, Godly love.
Let me try to answer all four of these comments with an analogy:
Parents have a choice to: not have children, to have children and raise them to be immature pets and not mature (this would be abusive) or to have and raise children to maturity and give them the best opportunity to develop Godly type love for God. Now the last choice is what God desires of us, but that also means each and every one that reaches maturity will sin. So did you raise up your children to sin (NO), do you want them to sin (NO), will you allow them to sin (YES, you really can’t stop them), do you know they will sin (YES), could you do anything to keep them from sinning (not without keeping them from maturing). Did you then have children so they would sin? Will their sin help them: to need a savior, understand the power of Satan and sin, see how bad sin is, have a need for the indwelling Spirit, feel the burden of sin and the relieve that comes with sin being removed, relate to the world better (we are all sinners), be able to witness to others God’s forgiving love, and be able to learn from their mistakes. The idea is for them to become strong loving Christians in a very hostel world and to do that they will sin.
God is making millions of people each week that will sin, in fact everyone of them that reaches maturity will sin. God could stop making people or could change the way people are made to be robotic pets, but He want all to have the opportunity to love Him, with some developing a very wonder all consuming Godly type love for Him and others.
Now I see: The situation we are in today is the best situation I can imagine for developing Godly type love for God and others. We do sin in the situation today.
Thank you bling.
I know you do not agree with my full assessment of fellowship being an avenue to love, including Godly love. And you have your reasons. As for me, your reasons are not enough to make me change my mind. I hope we can agree to disagree on this point for now and move on.
What is important is that we both recognize God wants love, including Godly love, AND fellowship with us. Both are desired by God. And this is enough for me to represent my original point:
God's Purpose For the Tree
God in the garden desired a "loving relationship" with Adam and Eve but did not force Adam and Eve to meet those desires. He gave them a choice as to how they can participate in the relationship and to participate in that love. Why? Because a loving relationship and the expressing of love is voluntary. If God did not allow them to volunteer their love, he would be unloving, and our inability to choose would not result in a true love for us..
He made that choice in form of a tree that they could freely eat of. Eating of the tree was forbidden, but not restricted. Why? Because if they freely eat of the tree, they would be breaking a command, and would become sinners. Becoming sinners means they are separated from God. The act of sinning is an act of non-lovingness towards God, it also means they are free to no longer love God.
By the very definition of being separated, they would have a way to reject the fellowship and love God offered. They could have freedom in God or freedom from God, depending on if they ate of this tree or not. Moreover, the knowledge of good and evil leads to more sin, but not by nature, but by sin's nature. The law was good, but sin advantage of it. Humans who are separated from God need this internal law to get by without God, lest they sin forever and never know better.
Also, having the law in their heart gives them a way back to God should they want to return. Knowing the law means you know you are a sinner in need of God. So the tree offers a way out, and the knowledge of good and evil offers a way back should you choose.
The point was love. God hoped they wouldn't eat of the tree and wouldn't sin. But God had to remain loving even if they weren't loving back, as that is what love does. So that is why he gave the the law through the very tree that separated them from God, as they no longer would look to God for the law but to themselves.
Now for scripture to back up what I believe:
John 3:20
For everyone practicing evil
hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed.
Isaiah 59:2
But your
iniquities have separated you from your God; And your sins have hidden His face from you, So that He will not hear.
Genesis 2
15 Then the LORD God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to tend and keep it. 16 And the LORD God commanded the man, saying, “Of every tree of the garden you may freely eat; 17
but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat of it you shall surely die.” ..............25 And
they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.
Genesis 3
6 So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree desirable to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate. She also gave to her husband with her, and he ate. 7
Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves coverings. ................ 22 Then the LORD God said, “Behold,
the man has become like one of Us, to know good and evil. And now, lest he put out his hand and take also of the tree of life, and eat, and live forever”— 23 therefore the LORD God sent him out of the garden of Eden to till the ground from which he was taken. 24 So He drove out the man; and He placed cherubim at the east of the garden of Eden, and a flaming sword which turned every way, to guard the way to the tree of life.
Romans 1
20 For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse, 21 because, although they knew God, they did not glorify Him as God, nor were thankful, but became futile in their thoughts, and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22
Professing to be wise, they became fools, 23 and changed the glory of the incorruptible God into an image made like corruptible man—and birds and four-footed animals and creeping things.
24 Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves, 25 who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.
26 For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. 27 Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due.
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And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a debased mind, to do those things which are not fitting; 29 being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality,[c] wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil-mindedness; they are whisperers, 30 backbiters, haters of God, violent, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31 undiscerning, untrustworthy, unloving, unforgiving,[d] unmerciful; 32 who, knowing the righteous judgment of God, that those who practice such things are deserving of death, not only do the same but also approve of those who practice them.
Matthew 22
36 “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the law?”
37 Jesus said to him, “ ‘
You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’[a] 38 This is the first and great commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’[] 40 On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.”
Psalm 94:19-22
19 In the multitude of my anxieties within me,
Your comforts delight my soul.
20
Shall the throne of iniquity, which devises evil by law,
Have fellowship with You?
21 They gather together against the life of the righteous,
And condemn innocent blood.
22 But the LORD has been my defense,
And my God the rock of my refuge.
1 Corinthians 1:9
God is faithful, by whom
you were called into the fellowship of His Son, Jesus Christ our Lord.
2 Corinthians 6:14
Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers.
For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?
2 Corinthians 13:14
The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God, and the
communion of the Holy Spirit be with you all. Amen.
Romans 7
7 What shall we say then? Is the law sin? Certainly not!
On the contrary, I would not have known sin except through the law. For I would not have known covetousness unless the law had said, “You shall not covet.”[a] 8 But sin, taking opportunity by the commandment, produced in me all manner of evil desire. For apart from the law sin was dead. 9 I was alive once without the law, but when the commandment came, sin revived and I died. 10
And the commandment, which was to bring life, I found to bring death. 11 For sin, taking occasion by the commandment, deceived me, and by it killed me. 12 Therefore the law is holy, and the commandment holy and just and good.
13 Has then what is good become death to me? Certainly not! But sin, that it might appear sin, was producing death in me through what is good, so that sin through the commandment might become exceedingly sinful. 14 For we know that the law is spiritual, but I am carnal, sold under sin.
1 Timothy 1:8-16
8 But we know that the law is good if one uses it lawfully, 9 knowing this:
that the law is not made for a righteous person, but for the lawless and insubordinate, for the ungodly and for sinners, for the unholy and profane, for murderers of fathers and murderers of mothers, for manslayers, 10 for fornicators, for sodomites, for kidnappers, for liars, for perjurers, and if there is any other thing that is contrary to sound doctrine, 11 according to the glorious gospel of the blessed God which was committed to my trust.
12 And I thank Christ Jesus our Lord who has enabled me, because He counted me faithful, putting me into the ministry, 13 although I was formerly a blasphemer, a persecutor, and an insolent man; but I obtained mercy because I did it ignorantly in unbelief.
Romans 3
19 Now we know that whatever the law says, it says to those who are under the law, that every mouth may be stopped, and all the world may become guilty before God. 20 Therefore by the deeds of the law no flesh will be justified in His sight,
for by the law is the knowledge of sin.
1 Corinthians 13
4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5 does not behave rudely,
does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
8 Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part.
I hope the above verses will help you understand why I explain it like I do. And once again I wish you would stop calling sin necessary to develop Godly love.
I do have a verse that should help you do so. It is in 1 Cor 13:3, "And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned,[] but have not love, it profits me nothing."
You have said on many occasions that sin is needed to produce Godly love because sin produces a need, and with that need love may be expressed. But as noted by the verse above, you can still fill needs and not have love. Interesting to note, because having a need does not produce love, but having love in your heart does.
Needs are not what produces love, Bling. Even though sin does produce needs, it is not good to have those needs, and it is not a guarentee that those needs will produce true love.
Instead love comes from the heart, soul, mind and spirit of a person. It doesn't need sin.
If you say sin is needed to produce love, you are borderline calling sin good, as it is necessary. And that is something you seem to borderline often with your message. Please, once again, reconsider.
Thanks
-Pat