That is true of all debates. We tend to follow stronger debaters unfortunately (because they can be wrong, just better debaters).
Again, I'm not certain I have to answer this question too specifically and my compatible nature on things tends to be a hard pill for OVer's to swallow logically. It is a hard call when we are talking about God and speculating. I tend NOT to lean as heavily on my logic but try to have faith with things of Him whether a thing is indepthly explained or not, and it really has more to do with trusting Him over myself, not an anti-intellectual approach to the topic. I just don't want to overstep my bounds and say God 'must' be this way or that when the basis of saying so is purely my intellect that is asserting. In other words, without specific revelation, I'm more careful but there are things we see clearly and by intellect, that are musts like a tri-une view.
I think I just say in a way that it can be acquiesced, but it is more of saying that certain logical ends, even with OV, must point strongly to more than just predicting and guessing on God's part and that whatever that is, it, in my mind and as best as I can logically draw conclusion, resembles the classic definition of EDF even as OV is opposed to the idea.
Again, only because I see Him relational to us but I'm embracing a counter-intuitive model and saying He's both. It is a logical problem, but it doesn't presume as much to say what He can or cannot, does or doesn't do. I'd rather be in the dark than presumptive, asserting, or wrong. Better not to say until or if I ever know. I have my guesses and logical reasoning for where I am swayed but I'm much less dogmatic on things that are speculative at best. If scripture is silent on an issue like EDF, I think it is true, but I'm only staunch because OV is staunch on the opposite end of the discussion. I believe in EDF but it isn't something that I want to argue against but if the alternative is a God who guesses and can make mistakes, that isn't something I can acquiesce. It is problematic and needs much further discussion.
Except that I'm a compatiblist? I see truths of both sides *(
Noam Chomsky) but lean with
J. E. R. Staddon on the compatible approach. Skinner himself hated negative reinforcement and always pushed positive.
I'm not sure if it is a problem with you, but it is for most OVer's. They don't like it when their alternating views seem in conflict. To me, that is polarizing because on most issues, we all tend toward the mediating position. Because of this, I'm much more confrontational with extremes in faith as OV necessarily is on these considerations.