I'm neither laughing with you or at you. I think it's sad that things that are clearly different in the scriptures are being ignored by those who claim to 2 Timothy 2:15 KJV.
Whether or not you were laughing with me or at me was not my point, rather; my decided attitude, as these differences in understanding are only important should the means by which they are arrived at begin to seriously impact the more critically important understandings.
As for your assertion that "things that are clearly different in the scriptures are being ignored," you might consider that, often, some things only appear "clearly" different, that only much time later down the road, brings out further distinctions showing they were not different at all.
Due to this ever the case learning curve, there are often tiny distinctions in between things that, when missed; lead one to conclude a difference between things that is not actually there, and visa versa.
Problem is, these things are not often able to be brought out to their needed extent between opposing sides via a snippet of information, say, from you or STP, or whomever on your side of the fence, followed by one from me, or some one else, and so on; instead they often require a longer study between the people involved on both sides of the fence.
And even that is no guarantee agreement will be reached. Fact of the matter is, there are MADists of both our persuasion in some assemblies who sit together in said same assembly who continue to hold a different understanding under the same roof. Some of them under the best and brightest within the entire MAD movement.
I'll end with this...
I still recall many years ago when I was thrown off by Acts 17's "searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so."
Sometime later, I happened to meet up with one of these profoundest of men, so I asked him 'what did Paul teach them that they were searching the Scriptures for verification?'
This individual simply said to me "Daniel 9."
Took me some time to get that distinction.... as I grew in various other distinctions that first needed to be in place.
It is often said that "When the student is ready, the teacher will appear."
Such was my moment.
It struck me one day, while studying out some other issue, what that individual had based that Daniel 9 distinction on, and I found I'd come to it myself, simply through time in the Word, growing as a result of other distinctions that had first needed to be in place, that I might then see that one.
I have never forgotten that lesson. I differ with you and yours as a result of many, tiny, seemingly insignificant distinctions in these things over many years, and will continue to differ as a result of said distinctions so long as those distinctions are the case.
Likewise in some things on your end; I'm sure.
One thing I long ago learned from that is that things will fit in their own time and no sooner. To leave them be until the time in the Word needed towards that results, in it.
All in its time, Luke 24: 3-10; John 2: 15-17.