For how long?
doser may be a life long student, a career student maybe
For how long?
The only grounds for joining with another man is upon the death of her husband or having been divorced for fornication.
If what I said above is not true, then please provide scripture where Moses' bill of divorcement ever said a wife could put away her husband.
The wife could leave but without the writing of divorce she could not legally be remarried.
She could leave but the conduct of the man is not the condition that determines her adultery.
The reason a man could put away his wife was for fornication.
That is if he found her to not be a virgin.
If he found her to not be a virgin, she had been raped or had committed fornication before marriage.
There were only two ways a man could commit adultery, that is have sex with a married woman or have sex with a wife who had been put away for something other than fornication.
It is possible for a married man to commit adultery as well as fornication, however it is only possible for a married woman to commit adultery, it is impossible for her to commit fornication.
1M1S wrote:
If what I said above is not true, then please provide scripture where Moses' bill of divorcement ever said a wife could put away her husband.
This is a good question. The advancement for women in Moses unique divorce law (it is not found in any other ancient near east codes) was that the woman received things owned together; that there was 'community property.'
Mk 10 has addressed the Roman world where women could initiate. That was also found in Hellenistic culture, as I recall.
Where is the community property written about?
Yes, and it seems that at the time of Jesus, Judea as well as Samaria were not immune to the concept.
I don't know why you have given the last paragraph. The Greek terms could easily apply to a married man having an affair with an unmarried woman, and use 'porneia' or 'akatharsia' or others for that.
True, and I certainly wouldn't advise it since we do suffer consequences for our behavior in this life. :thumb:
THAT should not be 'a twist.' It is what we need much more of in cases like this.In a twist, the accused student is now suing his accuser for $500,000 in damages, alleging the accuser knowingly published false statements on her social media account. She had also circulated the online petition, although she did not create it.
and we're dating
we are Christians
we care deeply for each other
we plan to marry
we plan to build a home
we plan to raise a family
some here seem to feel a great depth of disapproval about it, so i thought i'd throw it out and see what the peanut gallery thinks
how do you feel about the fact that i'm dating a woman who is old enough to be my daughter (granddaughter, actually)?
eta: this is a hypothetical, based on my life situation and my plans for the future
the impetus for this thread was that town and zoo, specifically, have referred to the idea of me in a relationship with a younger woman as "creepy"
do you think that res is guilty of adultery, because he is dating someone while still legally married to someone else?
can you show me where in scripture it says anything about being legally married?
as far as God and i are concerned, i've been divorced since she moved out
she filed for divorce and moved out ten years ago
we put the action in abeyance so i could stay on her health insurance
she has established a separate residence and we have no intention of reconciling
in fact, i plan to finalize soon
If your marriage is irretrievably over, as it was, then do the right thing by getting a formal divorce and let your ex wife, even though the fault may have been hers, marry again if she wants to.
He isn't keeping her from getting a divorce or remarrying.
doser may be a life long student, a career student maybe
From a 2014 thread
A Poll! I'm 54, She's 27...
http://www.theologyonline.com/forums/showthread.php?t=100357
Yep.you saw the "this is a hypothetical, based on my life situation and my plans for the future, right?
based on my life situation
Yep.
While you were married.
do you have any scripture saying that we can't entertain hypotheticals?
do we really need to know about your personal history?
and
is this the place to discuss it?
I don't think so
and
this should apply to others here
Galatians 5:9 KJV -
and you understand what a hypothetical means?
Well, I think Tambora had him bang to rights on this not so long ago, and frankly, let's just hope this relationship with a 27 year old librarian is fictional.
not fictional - she's smart, pretty, funny, physically attractive and fun to be with
she's a good friend
:idunno:I did not have a job
For how long?