To hell with me?
That's not what Christ said. He didn't leave the Samaritans, and tell them to all go to hell. There is a time when people's hearts are open, and it is the HS that does that, not you.
The reason that you are getting so frustrated is that I won't accept Jesus on your timeline.
I think my conversion has little to do with your true concern for my soul, and more to do with your own ego, and being able to prove yourself right. I rarely see the fruits of the spirit in you, and so I see you as blind. I think my resistance tests your faith. You see that you can't control me, make me agree with you (even if you want to call that God, because it is your version of God), and that makes you frustrated. All I usually see from you is bitterness, anger, mocking, and little else to offer. And with all your huffing and puffing, you want me to convert, a strategy that pushes me farther away, if you haven't noticed.
So don't hold your breath.