You seriously need to get yourself some spiritual counseling for this clearly deeply entrenched, reflex animosity of yours - just look at how it clouds your ability to soundly discern what's what.
For my post to Sherman was in the spirit of...
Luke 10:37 And he said, He that shewed mercy on him. Then said Jesus unto him, Go, and do thou likewise.
It is high time you walk by faith in what you claim to believe - you're long over due.
Romans 12:17 Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men. 12:18 If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.
And what walk by faith focus will allow that, no matter whom, or what they might do to us, as well as no matter what they might not do for us?
12:19 Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. 12:20 Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. 12:21 Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
Rom. 5:6-8.