Interesting points, but it really goes much deeper than a couple verses.
As you go through the Bible, you can find conflict and antipathy between the LORD and the temple/priests pretty much from the point that Solomon put up the first one. Even before that, when God didn't allow David to put one up. Actually, even during the tabernacle period, God wasn't too pleased that the people wanted to stuff him into a tent so that they didn't have to be in His presence all the time.
It turns out, men are the ones who keep erecting walls and curtains and veils between ourselves and God. DO you suppose those are to bring us closer to Him? It is clear to me at least, that all these barriers are simply meant to hide us from God.
Is it any wonder God has knocked down every temple that has been put up?
If you say so...
1 Kings 9:1 And it came to pass, when Solomon had finished the building of the house of the LORD, and the king's house, and all Solomon's desire which he was pleased to do, 9:2 That the LORD appeared to Solomon the second time, as he had appeared unto him at Gibeon. 9:3 And the LORD said unto him, I have heard thy prayer and thy supplication, that thou hast made before me: I have hallowed this house, which thou hast built, to put my name there for ever; and mine eyes and mine heart shall be there perpetually.
There is that, and then their is His displeasure when that is not respected...
Matthew 21:12 And Jesus went into the temple of God, and cast out all them that sold and bought in the temple, and overthrew the tables of the moneychangers, and the seats of them that sold doves, 21:13 And said unto them, It is written, My house shall be called the house of prayer; but ye have made it a den of thieves.
You...are confusing the two.