My main problem with unschooling is that it goes against the grain of the highest governmental institution in the world, namely, the family. The family was set in place by God before, and above, all governments, and it is the family that keeps the world civilized. What unschooling does is it takes the head of the family, the father, and places him on the bottom of the pyramid, while the heavy base of the children stays on top, upsetting the balance.
When the children lead solely, without guidance and Godly structure, the pyramid topples, the family begins to strain under the pressure, and society suffers.
However, there is another way.
The family, with father as head, and mother as a mainstay in the children's lives, there can be freedom. You set boundaries, and let the children choose freely from within those boundaries. For instance, you give the children an environment such that when they choose, they only have healthy choices to make. This is one of the reasons we don't have television service in our home, and only videos that we have thoughtfully decided on.
Homeschooling doesn't have to be an empty minded, boxed-in structure, where the children are pushed through virtual corridors for 6-8 hours a day with a schedule that is kept militarily. This structure induces boredom and stifles creativity. It's an environment where rote is the plan, memory is king, and information is retained just long enough to make it to the next turn in the corridor.
Rather, the loving parent will homeschool their children in every possible experience that life can throw at them. At home, they are not sheltered from the world in a daily box where even playtime is designed around just their age group. Instead, they are given experiences that will shape them for life as they deal with people of all ages on a regular basis at the hardware store, the nursing home visit, the farmer's market, the flea market, the thrift store, their own siblings of varying ages, abilities and qualities. The occasional visit from the plumber, the UPS deliveryman, the trip to the Post Office, and so on, gives them high occasion to see the world in action, and helps prepare them for what the real world is actually like, and not a "Now Timmy, those boys are trouble..." educational video at school on a pull-down screen.
This is real homeschool, where the grocery store trip can:
- Teach math. Just looking at the receipt show the child just how much money was spent, and how much remains.
- Teach home economics. Where the child can see if what was purchased was a wise investment for the home. Also, the child can see if the trip itself was worth the products purchased, including gas, vehicle wear and tear, the stamina of the younger siblings during the trip, and the lunch purchased at Burger King on the way because the trip was taken in the middle of the day.
- Teach time management, where the child can see how long it took make the trip.
- Teach real world interaction. The butcher, the baker, the clerk, and the manager can all be interacted with.
- Teach a host of other things that a classroom could never accomplish.
Publicly schooled families see the above example as drudgery. Homeschool families relish the above and constantly look for more opportunities like it.
Do your kids a favor. Take them out of school. Lead them well. Raise them to be Godly. You will be blessed!
truthman