Reality is what actually exists from moment to moment....as most fundamental. It is 'be-ing' and 'be-coming'
pj
Do you think God created other intelligent complicated life that has visited earth in space ships?
Reality is what actually exists from moment to moment....as most fundamental. It is 'be-ing' and 'be-coming'
pj
count me in!
Do you think God created other intelligent complicated life that has visited earth in space ships?
I believe in the dialectical process. So, I don't have a problem with term. In fact, I rather enjoy truthsmacking, especially when I am doing the smacking. Open rebuke is better than love carefully revealed. That's why they call it tough love.
Mostly, it's just some self-righteous turd who thinks he's really clever as he insults other people to compensate for his own fear of failure. "Truth-smacking" is what over-grown adolescents call their obsession with childish school-yard bullying, that they've never managed to grow out of. Now, though, they pretend it's godly and righteous behavior in hopes that this will somehow excuse them of their obvious mental and emotional retardation.What exactly is a truth smacker? And is open rebuke really better than love carefully concealed?
Mostly, it's just some self-righteous turd who thinks he's really clever as he insults other people to compensate for his own fear of failure. "Truth-smacking" is what over-grown adolescents call their obsession with childish school-yard bullying, that they've never managed to grow out of. Now, though, they pretend it's godly and righteous behavior in hopes that this will somehow excuse them of their obvious mental and emotional retardation.
Get the idea?
I did't know there was a sister site. Probably wouldn't have visited it, anyway. The offensive behavior seems to be and flow, here. I try not to get drawn in. I'm not always successful, though.I think the 'truth-smacking' has simmered down some,...but I'm only active here in the Religion section mostly. Did the sister site 'Truth Smack' close down? Im just going by memory,...and wondered if that forum was still up and running.
pj
I did't know there was a sister site. Probably wouldn't have visited it, anyway. The offensive behavior seems to be and flow, here. I try not to get drawn in. I'm not always successful, though.
I used to believe that, but after having been around TOL for a long time, it looks to me like all the "truth-smacking" really does is push the one being "smacked" to become even more entrenched in his/her auto-defensiveness, while it inflates the ego and self-righteousness of the one doing the smacking. So that neither of them is improved by the practice.Sometimes the fat lady doesn't want to hear comments about her size. Sometimes we have delusions about ourselves.
A truth smack may cut through a delusion, and painful as it is to hear, the truth does set us free. But it only works if we have the courage to look it in the face.
I used to believe that, but after having been around TOL for a long time, it looks to me like all the "truth-smacking" really does is push the one being "smacked" to become even more entrenched in his/her auto-defensiveness, while it inflates the ego and self-righteousness of the one doing the smacking. So that neither of them is improved by the practice.
As a result, I have been trying not to engage in it anymore, myself. I'm not always successful, because we all like feeling superior and clever and self-righteous, and I'm no different. But it is becoming more and more obvious to me that engaging in such behavior helps no one, spiritually, and in fact it does a lot of harm.
YOU, on the other hand, DESERVE a good SMACK now and then!!! :chuckle:
You are clearly an exception.Yes and when I do get smacked I pay attention. If it makes me uncomfortable then I know I have some soul searching to do. If it makes me mad then I know I need to get off the computer for a while! :mmph:
I used to believe that, but after having been around TOL for a long time, it looks to me like all the "truth-smacking" really does is push the one being "smacked" to become even more entrenched in his/her auto-defensiveness, while it inflates the ego and self-righteousness of the one doing the smacking. So that neither of them is improved by the practice.
As a result, I have been trying not to engage in it anymore, myself. I'm not always successful, because we all like feeling superior and clever and self-righteous, and I'm no different. But it is becoming more and more obvious to me that engaging in such behavior helps no one, spiritually, and in fact it does a lot of harm.
Bingo!
Sounds like the excuse lousy parents make to themselves to justify hitting their children.What exactly is a truth smacker? And is open rebuke really better than love carefully concealed?
No, that would be a Youth Smacker. . . :drum:Sounds like the excuse lousy parents make to themselves to justify hitting their children.