And the only valid situation is marriage.
Or if the woman is a daughter in a man's house. Of course in that case she should also be submissive to her mother.
Or if a woman is in a class, let's say a college course, and the teacher is a man. Then too.
But of the bigger picture, not just talking about submission but also if women should take authority rolls in the church over men, then the answer is she shouldn't.
This isn't because God is arbitrary and mean. This is because men and women have rolls to play and one of the men's rolls is to be authorities in the church because they are better at it.
If you want to see what women think, just watch them vote when they aren't married. They are such a reliable demographic at voting for evil that consultants see them only as useful idiots.