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The punishment for seducing a unmarried virgin is not death, and no, it is not allowed, and yes, sometimes things which are not allowed happen anyway.
If she cries out she isn't going to face death but he will. What happens if she does not cry out?
Sorry, I may have mixed it up. We are speaking of different passages. The one I was thinking of is actually if the girl is engaged.
Exodus 22:16 "If a man seduces a virgin who is not engaged, and lies with her, he must pay a dowry for her to be his wife.
Exodus 22:17 "If her father absolutely refuses to give her to him, he shall pay money equal to the dowry for virgins.
Deuteronomy 22:23 "If there is a girl who is a virgin engaged to a man, and another man finds her in the city and lies with her,
Deuteronomy 22:24 then you shall bring them both out to the gate of that city and you shall stone them to death; the girl, because she did not cry out in the city, and the man, because he has violated his neighbor's wife. Thus you shall purge the evil from among you.
Deuteronomy 22:25 "But if in the field the man finds the girl who is engaged, and the man forces her and lies with her, then only the man who lies with her shall die.
Deuteronomy 22:26 "But you shall do nothing to the girl; there is no sin in the girl worthy of death, for just as a man rises against his neighbor and murders him, so is this case.
Deuteronomy 22:27 "When he found her in the field, the engaged girl cried out, but there was no one to save her.
Deuteronomy 22:28 "If a man finds a girl who is a virgin, who is not engaged, and seizes her and lies with her and they are discovered,
Deuteronomy 22:29 then the man who lay with her shall give to the girl's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall become his wife because he has violated her; he cannot divorce her all his days.
Betulah means "virgin", and that is NOT used in Isaiah 7.
Eliyahu