First you need to understand who God's Son is, by which God created all things.
I have no doubts that The Son created.
Colossians 1:16 KJV
(16) For by him were all things created, that are in heaven, and that are in earth, visible and invisible, whether they be thrones, or dominions, or principalities, or powers: all things were created by him, and for him:
But knowing or not knowing that has no bearing on the question of how many times He was slain.
We know that Jesus Christ was slain on the cross.
Which means it was definitely after creation, for there could be no cross without creation.
So was that the only time He was slain, or was there also another time He was slain with no cross before creation?
It's quite simple really.
Before creation there was nothing but GOD (Father, Son, Holy Spirit).
Which means that there could be no cross before creation, unless you want to start claiming that that wooden cross Jesus was slain upon was also GOD.
Look, I'm not trying to trip you up or trick you.
I want to study and discuss.
But in order to do that, one must be willing to answer counter-points.
I'm just trying to sharpen both of us in how we put forth an argument.
The little digs and insults we sling might be fun, but they offer nothing to the argument.
If we can sharpen each other on how to better hone in on an argument, then we will not make the same mistakes by our statements as we might have in the past.
So I've been telling you that your statement of "Obey and follow the commands of Christ" is not accurate for the sheer reason that you readily accept that you do not need to obey all the commands of Jesus Christ.
So that statement needs to be much more precise than how you stated it, otherwise your statement is going to be easily squashed into mush.
It's not so much that your thinking was wrong, but that how you stated it was wrong.
I have learned over the years that some of the ways I stated things were easily dismantled AS STATED, so I learned to be more precise when bringing up that thought again.
And by doing that saves a whole lot of time and needless questions if stated more precisely.
Have a good day.