I agree, and knowing little else about your situation I'd say to look at it as a "band-aid" solution that needs a more permanent and less conflicted solution.
Yes, we could check under the band-aid to see if the patient has healed, then dispatch him with a rock to the head! It will be interesting to see how this plays out. The RCC is not going to invest more money in teachers and resources, and teaching priests are dying of old age.
Well yeah, but there was a bit of a change to it after WWII, no? Such that it's not exactly the same thing that it was before, right?
I'd be happy to believe you, and indeed to raise you the point that the Roman church underwent a bit of a change in the late '60s too, although Josef Ratzinger (who was part of Vatican II) turned into a fascist reactionary as if no reforms had ever been even considered.
The Catholic Church teaches that the Church is the ultimate and only answer to the problem of evil, which you do seem to admit is nonfictional, and not just some religious or "club" fictional story.
To the contrary, I see the Problem of Evil as christianity shooting itself in the foot. Abolish Abrahamism and the Problem of Evil disappears along with it.
While a scientist or statistician would require a true control in order to draw reliable conclusions about the efficacy of the factor known as the Church upon the world, we've no such luxury. We have to look at the book of history and figure out as best we can what impact that the Church has had upon the world, bearing in mind that once the Church penetrated a culture, that culture has become "Christianized" in some sense, and it's impossible thereafter to analytically parse her from that culture; we're left with an inseparable conflation and confounding of factors, rendering the final analysis less than sure.
Yes, what if Constantine hadn't saved christianity from irrelevance by making it the established religion of the Roman Empire? Would some other religion have come to dominate Europe, and would it have induced a Dark Age and later a fearful Medieval mentality? Would some other belief system taken its place and been less or more retarding of the development of Western Enlightenment thinking?
As you say there is no control experiment. All we can do is speculate based on human nature, which does seem to return to religious belief as some kind of default.
Brutality and crass barbarism have been almost extinguished, the value of children has been elevated, law and order, and the care for the needy among us.
Alright then. Let me have a go at the case for the prosecution. I'll pick three horrors, which I'll assert wouldn't have happened without the RCC:
* Systematic cover up of child sexual abuse: this is not necessarily the abuse itself, which is not limited to members of the Catholic church, but the systematic institutional protection of priests and others who raped children, and the frequent moving of those rapists on to new pastures to rape again. As far as I am able to tell, it is still Canon law that a bishop decides whether or not to pick up the phone and call the police. This is a denial of justice for innocent people whose lives have been wrecked, sometimes by the coverup more than by the abuse.
* Institutional antisemitism, including the Blood Libel, the accusation that Jews murdered christian children and used their blood in religious rituals, and the 13th Century papal bull that resulted in a Canon law requiring Jews and muslims to wear distinctive dress or badges to identify them.
* The love of poverty as a necessity, as seen in the really nasty words and deeds of Anjezë Gonxhe Bojaxhiu, the so-called Mother Theresa, who preferred the purity of suffering to the relief of medical treatment, claimed that Calcutta could never have too many children and decried abortion as 'the greatest destroyer of peace today' (what, not even sucking up to the Nazis comes ahead of abortion in the category of destroying peace??). Family planning, possibly including abortion, is a liberation of women from their reproductive cycle and one of the single most effective ways to alleviate poverty. The maintenance of canonical dogmas against contraception and abortion directly support the maintenance of poverty, and relief of that poverty is most likely to be found where people - including Catholics - are ignoring those dogmas.
As you might appreciate, I have had to leave out some particularly brutal examples to keep it to just three.
Stuart