I'm seeing an bristling resistance against "love one another" and "love thy enemy." You seem to be unwilling to apply this standard towards yourself. How many times have you been asked for a straight answer? Half a dozen already? on this board? Yet evasion from you each and every time.
And why the evasion? Because you know what the right answer is supposed to be, but your pride (and a mistaken loyalty to a MAD paradigm) won't allow you to say it aloud.
You were on ignore mode until not too long ago. Maybe you belong back again.
Actually, you're not off on this "love your enemy...love one another" you have been going on about.
Paul himself often brings said two-fold issue up. As in...
Romans 12:19 Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. 12:20 Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. 12:21 Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
And in...
Romans 13:8 Owe no man any thing, but to love one another: for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law. 13:9 For this, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not kill, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not bear false witness, Thou shalt not covet; and if there be any other commandment, it is briefly comprehended in this saying, namely, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. 13:10 Love worketh no ill to his neighbour: therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.
And so on.
At the same time, the intent of Israel's "instruction in righteousness" on that, differed under the Law from that of the Body's under Grace.
Under the Law, its intent had been that of...
Romans 3:19 Now we know that what things soever the law saith, it saith to them who are under the law: that every mouth may be stopped, and all the world may become guilty before God. 3:20 Therefore by the deeds of the law there shall no flesh be justified in his sight: for by the law is the knowledge of sin.
But that is not where we are. For...
3:21 BUT NOW the righteousness of God WITHOUT the law is manifested, being witnessed by the law and the prophets;
And this side of that, the intent is that of CHOOSING TO manifest what we are now also called unto, yes, BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY, are NOW ABLE TO, IF we'll but CHOOSE TO look to THE CROSS, during such moments.
As in the following...
Romans 15:1 We then that are strong ought to bear the infirmities of the weak, and not to please ourselves. 15:2 Let every one of us please his neighbour for his good to edification. 15:3 For even Christ pleased not himself; but, as it is written, The reproaches of them that reproached thee fell on me.
That is the issue of our CHOOSING TO focus on how that "even Christ pleased not himself; but, as it is written, The reproaches of them that reproached thee fell on me."
We are THEN able to do what the Israelite could only hope to fail at, under the Law, given both the Law's intent (the awareness of indwelling sin), and given that the Law had been designed to be weak through the flesh, towards said intent - the awareness of said indwelling sin.
Romans 7:7 What shall we say then? Is the law sin? God forbid. Nay, I had not known sin, but by the law: for I had not known lust, except the law had said, Thou shalt not covet. 7:8 But sin, taking occasion by the commandment, wrought in me all manner of concupiscence. For without the law sin was dead.
7:13 Was then that which is good made death unto me? God forbid. But sin, that it might appear sin, working death in me by that which is good; that sin by the commandment might become exceeding sinful. 7:14 For we know that the law is spiritual: but I am carnal, sold under sin.
Solution?
The Cross.
Romans 8:3 For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh: 8:4 That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.
Resulting enablement?
Galatians 5:13 For, brethren, ye have been called unto liberty; only use not liberty for an occasion to the flesh, but by love serve one another. 5:14 For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. 5:15 But if ye bite and devour one another, take heed that ye be not consumed one of another. 5:16 This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. 5:17 For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. 5:18 But if ye be led of the Spirit, ye are not under the law.
To walk in the Spirit, then, refers to CHOOSING TO walk in a clear understanding of OUR "instruction in righteousness" THIS SIDE of the FINISHED work of The Cross.
A clear understanding found in Paul's writings. As in his...
Romans 6:14 For sin shall not have dominion over you: for ye are NOT under the law, BUT under grace.
Galatians 5:1 Stand fast THEREFORE in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.
He is saying standfast therefore, in a clear understanding of your stand before God, justified in His Son.
In short, Grace has its own "instruction in righteousness."
Your intent is commendable.
No need to mix Law and Grace, towards said intent, though.
Not this side of, and because...Romans 5:6-8.