Stephen said:
No Mr. Kevin that is not what I am saying. I am saying that any argument can have holes poked in it by its doubters
Agreed. But
truth is true no matter what someone says otherwise. Wouldn't you agree with that? There is objective truth in this world, and when we base our views on God's Word, we are basing them on objective truth. So no matter what people say, God is clear. Do you agree or disagree with this statement? If not, why?
Stephen said:
and I would appreciate your answering of the questions asked instead simply poking holes in ours.
I've simply responded to the things you have said. My goal isn't simply to "Poke holes" in your arguments but to get you to reconsider the positions that are driving the arguments. If I wasn't your friend and brother in Christ, it wouldn't mean so much to me. Many would have shut the whole conversation off by now.
Stephen said:
I can attack and poke holes in your argument any day of the week.
But when you have, all you've done is say things like, "Why don't you stop abortion in China". There is a big difference between attacking and poking holes in something, and making substantive responses.
Stephen said:
I would like to see my questions answered on top the merciless hammering I get from you and lighthouse without a single answer.
Come on Buddy!
Anyone reading through all of the pages of this thread could see that I have
consistently and repeatedly tried to answer
everything you have said. If you have a problem with Lighthouse, you need to take it up
with him, but he hasn't followed this thread nearly as closely as I have, nor taken the great time to respond to your points as I have. So to say that I haven't provided a "single answer", is just not true.
I
have answered your questions and those of your dad's point by point, question by question, post by post. If I haven't,
please show the questions that weren't answered, and
I'd be glad to answer them. It's a big thread, so it's certainly possible something got missed, but I don't think it has. When I come on I go back and read all of your posts and I respond to what seems needs to be responded to. Understand that I am also working days again now and between family and ministry and work, my posting time has been cut drastically.
Stephen said:
Please don't twist me around like that when you know very well the respect I have for you. I completely value what you say and dismissing or twisting my posts is to me (personally) terribly insulting.
I wasn't trying to dismiss or twist your posts and I'm sorry if it came off that way. I have known you practically your whole life, and you know I love ya!
This is one of the reasons why I have always avoided this subject over the years when it's come up. Because my friendship with your family is more important to me
than these political views. We have had our discussions (your dad and I) over the years, and they always ended peacefully enough, even if we completely disagreed about a subject.
I fear for my friends now more than ever, because I am afraid you're going off the deep end. If I didn't care,
I wouldn't say anything. Your dad's views are a lot different than they were when we first met, and that concerns me greatly. Maybe an internet forum isn't the best place for us to talk these issues out, but with our busy lives, it's kind of what we are relegated to for the time being.
Stephen said:
Mr. Kevin I think that I speak for my dad as well when I say I would love to believe that viewpoint. It is a much easier nicer viewpoint to believe. But I cannot ignore the blatant facts that support the opposite of what you post.
And I will say the same thing I've been saying to your Poppa for years. That the objectivity of a source of data
ALWAYS has to be taken into consideration when examining the data. To say that it has no consideration is only indicative of a mindset that is bent on a particular position said data shows, and refusal to change that position.
It's like fighting vehemently that a lunatic in a nuthouse told you he saw Martians because you happened to believe in Martians, but refusing to tell people that you heard it from a lunatic in a nuthouse because you are afraid they'll reject that there are Martians. I hope this explains my thinking process on this issue further.
It's a serious matter when you charge into an internet forum started and owned by a member of a man's church and say the kinds of things that have been said about Pastor Bob here.
A man who has reached
many people with the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ. It is a serious matter when you charge into said forum and
accuse this man of God of lying and refusing to consider
that he may not be lying.
This is heartbreaking to me, because I invited your dad here, and now I feel I owe
an apology to my friend Pastor Bob and all of his church members for doing so.
Do you think I want to feel that way about Stephen, my friend of many years? Pastor Bob and all of his church members are great people who love the Lord, and I know they'll understand, but it still breaks my heart that my good friend of many years would charge in so recklessly firing those types of accusations. And
it only increases my concern, it does nothing to decrease it. Because if you'll accuse a good man like Bob (and trust me I know for a fact he's a good man), then
whatever is driving those views is seriously wrong!
Stephen said:
But my father and many other men I know have been in the same position as you are right now. They were saying the same things. And they are the ones who have changed their views.
That doesn't prove anything Bud. Just because someone changes their views doesn't make them right. :think: