And he does. He only chastens those he loves.
Sometimes I see undisciplined children run loose in public and I wonder why their parents don't love them and correct them.
I guess the parents are people like you who believe discipline is hate and offer no guidance to those they are responsible for.
Jesus said, "As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten. Therefore be zealous and repent." (Revelation 3:19)
Now out of His mouth goes a sharp sword, that with it He should strike the nations. And He Himself will rule them with a rod of iron. He Himself treads the winepress of the fierceness and wrath of Almighty God. (Revelation 19:15)
Tell Jesus Christ he should love his enemies and that you don't approve of a rod of iron. Explain to him that you don't approve of the way his people treated the Canaanites.
You misuse the verses to justify your own worldly desires.
Who is your Lord?