What I meant by "we each have a choice" was...
..."that to whom" we each "yield" ourselves "servants to obey, his servants" we "are to whom ye obey; whether of sin unto death, or of obedience unto righteousness" Romans 6:16.
There is no room in that for the secular viewpoint that is "so and so has offended me" and or "I perceive that so and so has offended me...it's payback time.."
To yield to that is to yield unto the sin nature - unto spiritual death's resulting agony of defeat and or the defeat that is one's glorying in the flesh's perception we sure put someone in their place, or whatever...
While, to seek to understand how it is that we can obey a passage during moments of difficulty and or of difficulty with others - how it is that we can (grace) in contrast to a sense of have to (law) - how it that works - begins to to move us towards our easily being able to obey unto righteousness.
The above is Grace Truth, beyond what's "not for us."
It is not Mid-Acts Dispensationalism.
Rather what MAD is meant to allow the MAD to be able to tap into unto its' glory in the here and now, and is it can allow not only the seeing of, but the actual experiencing of this as our reality in the here and now - that victory that is ours in the grace that is in Christ.
It allows us victory in Him over our issues in life and or with one another.
While my above "we have not so learned Christ" was the issue of Paul's having taught his readers these grace truths (the Grace Life beyond simply Mid-Acts) and was reminding them to focus on same via his "ye have not so learned Christ."
Just because we have some of the more basic MAD distinctions of things - which we each have come to over time - does not mean distinctions like this one I am pointing out are automatic.
They are not.
They become our experiential understanding right in the heat of life's day to day issues, as we encounter the various issues of life and look, not to the world for its answers, nor within ourselves, but to the Word; seeking there to find a means of understanding how it is that grace works - that it is about the empowerment that is "can" - in contrast to the bondage that is "have to."
This empowerment is built into the Father's grace toward us in His Son.
Its' personal understanding being the result a combination of the doctrine; the above types of questions, and our willing application of same by faith, or when we least want to.
It is then that "we know" it as ours; and know how to access its built in victory much easier each time out...
Romans 5:1 Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ: 5:2 By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God. 5:3 And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; 5:4 And patience, experience; and experience, hope: 5:5 And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us.
We are each ever presented with the above two choices.
In summary...
"Not for that we have dominion over your faith, but are helpers of your joy: for by faith ye stand" 2 Corinthians 1:24.