There's no sense in going over again and again, what's already been said to you. You have rejected the "Grace Message" as taught by the Apostle Paul and therefore, you continue to preach/teach a 'works based belief system.' You're trying your best to 'work your way to Heaven through your supposed "Obedience.' That's not what Paul was instructing/preaching. So, are we to listen to Paul or are we to listen to you? Ah, I'll choose the Apostle Paul. Of course, that's just me.
Grace is not: "We don't have to obey only believe".
Tell me what you think Paul means when he says:
2 Corinthians 10:5
We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ,
Romans 1:5
through whom we have received grace and apostleship to bring about the obedience of faith among all the Gentiles for His name's sake,
Romans 6:17
But thanks be to God that though you were slaves of sin, you became obedient from the heart to that form of teaching to which you were committed,
Romans 13:1
Every person is to be in subjection to the governing authorities For there is no authority except from God, and those which exist are established by God.