But don't you think it is important not to be judgemental and not to "detest" someone for doing something the Lord says is not good - such as getting a tattoo- because you just said you have broken many of God's laws such as adultery, not honoring your father, and not to hurt anyone....so if you have transgressed against the Lord and against others but have received mercy from the Lord and forgiveness that you should not hold other people's transgressions against them
"Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus" Romans 8:1
"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." Ephesians 4:32