annabenedetti
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Then you really aren't paying attention.
I'll take that under advisement. :chuckle:
Then you really aren't paying attention.
I believe that many conservative views are morally superior. Not all, but most.
Actually, only infantile people want that. Mature people welcome those with differing opinions, so long as they can socialize reasonably and respectfully. In fact, mature people appreciate the differences among us as being a positive part of our overall life experience. It's the infantile self-centeredness that some people exhibit that is problematic, not their ideological differences.
If I met a "rabid feminist", as you describe them, I would be very curious about them. I'd want to know what they're thinking and why they think that way. And I'd be very curious about how they see me, even if it were in a negative light.
What's weird, and sad, I think, is that you think that matters. I think that you think that holding those "morally superior" views makes you a morally superior man. Superior, enough, that it's OK for you to pass judgment on everyone else rather than being curious about them, and about their views. Rather than learning anything from them, and from their views, you automatically just condemn them, because they aren't your views. Because, in your mind, if they aren't your views they must be morally inferior views: not worth your bothering to understand beyond the point of recognizing them as being different.
Now you're just inventing "them" and inventing what you want to imaging is going on in their minds. When in fact, you have no idea what's going on in their minds.
A college contains hundred and sometimes thousands of students, and they are not all thinking the same things. That's for certain. So your absurd negative generalizations, here, only make you look silly and unreasonable.
Would you like to try that again?Believing oneself to have morally superior views does not equate to believing that I am morally superior.
I do not tolerate attitudes and opinions that are intentionally harmful to others. I am unapologetic about that and could care less about what you think about that.
Would you like to try that again?
Not it isn't. Any amount of empathy can give you a clue as to how to act in a way that doesn't present you as a jerk."Intentionally harmful to others" is a very vague and subjective phrase. What one may deem to be intentionally harmful to others, others may not. So who is the final arbiter on what is harmful and what isn't?
Why can't you just let it go and say nothing? Instead of trying to get on your moral high horse, worry about your own life and let them worry about theirs. It is really that simple.
Thanks for clarification, that statement threw me. :up:No, I stand by my statement. I do not believe that I am superior to any other person. Comprende?
Delivery is important. If someone asks you a direct question, that is one thing.When asked a question on a controversial subject, why should one have to let it go and say nothing? In my case, I'm studying a degree which requires me to share my views at times. I could lie, but why should I compromise my integrity to appease others?
Not it isn't. Any amount of empathy can give you a clue as to how to act in a way that doesn't present you as a jerk.
Why do you want to study philosophy if you don't want to learn from and about the ideals of others, and you don't want to field their criticism of yours? That's what philosophers do.When asked a question on a controversial subject, why should one have to let it go and say nothing? In my case, I'm studying a degree which requires me to share my views at times. I could lie, but why should I compromise my integrity to appease others?
That's because you do not work at MacDonalds
The real detail about a statement like that is "why?" That answer is really what tells people the kind of person you are. Many of the common answers to that are hurtful and seek to isolate or promote a moral superiority over someone else.It very much is. Some would say the simple statement "I'm against gay marriage and believe marriage should be between one man and one woman" is intentionally harmful towards others. Some would say it's not. So who's right?
Why do you want to study philosophy if you don't want to learn from and about the ideals of others, and you don't want to field their criticism of yours? That's what philosophers do.
I wondered if you'd consider the possibility. I hope you will. Also, you left unanswered the first part of my post to you, as to whether you showed less respect for them than they did for you.
It doesn't have a place in the discussion, although it seems to me you that you chose an extreme example so you could justify marginalizing them. Try substituting feminist for jihadist in your above and then please explain your thinking.
So it's okay for you to denigrate/use pejoratives for them? Why?
You've given a lot of "if" scenarios. Since you've been reluctant to venture an opinion in a student union discussion, you don't actually know what would be said to you. It might be something you don't like, and that would be your opportunity to listen, and then offer your viewpoint. And perhaps be pleasantly surprised.
You realize you've just made some pretty sweeping overstatements there?
"There have been cases..." That's the second time you've referenced other than your own personal experiences on your campus, which (and please correct me if I'm wrong) seems to be limited to an abortion discussion. What have been your own personal extracurricular experiences in expressing a different point of view?
I'm learning all the time about the ideals of others and I am quite happy to listen to criticism of my own. One then formulates arguments to defend your position and attack someone else's position. Arguments and counter arguments then go back and forth. If one realises that their position can't be defended then it's best to abandon that position. So don't patronise me by telling me what philosophers do, thanks.