you can't get away with calling certain people a liar
but
you can get away with insinuating that they are dishonest
and
you do that by saying
you don't believe that
you don't mean that
you don't think that
let your yes be yes , no be no
i prefer to let people speak for themselves, of course if someone doubts my sincerity they are perfectly free to challenge anything I say, i do wish more people were honest and polite about it
even if they are a bit misguided, we all make mistakes
the problem with being human is that we often fail to see our own mistakes, and seldom want to hear about them from others
presuming they are correctly pointing out a mistake we made in the first place, sometimes 2 wrongs just make it wrong wrong
blind leading the blind