I am personally opposed to the secular concept of feminism and what is being pushed in our society. It is representative of a lust for power, usurping of authority and emasculation of the men. It has helped destroy the family unit by making women dissatisfied with their roles as wives and mothers, leading to the disintegration of society overall.
For me, it is a matter of equality with role distinctions, as laid out in the Scriptures.
Women were deacons and leaders in the early Christian movement. Paul clearly says so. His fears of women speaking in church and so forth are not consistent with the Paul who said "In Christ there is no...male or female." A later follower of Paul inserted the "anti-women" material in Corinthians. Obviously, women WERE speaking out, otherwise the male community elders wouldn't have gotten so upset and made sure the women were held back and down.
There is a consensus of scholarship that has pointed out some of the letters attributed to Paul are inauthentic, written by someone else after Paul's death and put in his name. This is not so rare in the ancient world when people affixed famous names to their own writings to give them stature.
There are three "Pauls" within the letters attributed to him. To give names to these "Pauls," we call the Paul of the seven genuine letters the radical Paul.
But the Paul of the three pastoral epistles is a reactionary Paul: the author is not simply developing Paul’s message but countering it at important points. What we see, is a strong accommodation of Paul’s thought to the conventional mores of the time.
And when it came to family values of his day, Jesus made savage attacks over and over again on the family and did it very, very often.